You got married to the love of your life and you were sure and you still are that he/she is the best partner you could ever settle down with. If two people living together do not collide, then there is no relationship. A good marriage partner should not fear to correct you when you err and should not treat you like a fragile piece of glass. This is what we call tension and drives partners further apart. A good marriage is one that can accommodate anything from each of the lovers. It should encourage lovers to pour out their frustrations after a long long day. Improve your marriage by making it eventful. It fixes marriage crisis the simple way.
You might be experiencing some marriage crisis and can go to any length to fix them. You might have noticed some differences between you and the person you married. No one is perfect, not you and certainly not your marriage partner. To fix any marriage crisis, it is good to learn acceptance. Accept them as they are and try to understand to live with them and i assure you a long married life. For instance you might have married your wife out of intense love and you missed to point her lazy nature. Relax and learn to look at other alternatives. May be she is not so good in cooking or many other chores but she has a heart of gold. Accept her nature and focus on her good side. You can always get a house help to fix your marriage crisis.
It is good to learn to celebrate what you own and avoid comparisons. What you have is a lack in another person's marriage. A story is told of a person who was so tired of his marriage burdens and went complaining to God. God directed him to a store to go and deposit his marriage crisis and pick the smallest portion among them all. He was so excited and ran to lay down what seemed to be the most frustrating marriage burdens. He dropped the cargo, ran outside but rushed back to select the smallest and ran back home. He picked it but God's amazed voice spoke and announced "you have just picked what you brought in!". He could not comprehend the fact that his was comparatively minimal. He went home feeling challenged and was happy to have what he had for a marriage. Fix your marriage crisis by enjoying what you have.
You have noticed that your marriage is in crises due to piling of resentments. Solve your problems by talking about it. Accumulated anger and sadness results into frustrating marriages. To solve a marriage crisis, learn to use the three very important words. Say "i am sorry". They are the words that have the power to kill any anger, soften all the hard feelings and invoke forgiveness. In marriage, submission and dictation should play their different distinguished roles. When you feel you are wrong, you should be quick to submit your apologies to your spouse. If you are the wronged spouse you should forgive and forget. Do not revive it week after week. It will encourage the marriage crisis more.
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