G Spot and Discussing Did She Ever Faked an Orgasm

<h1>G Spot and Discussing Did She Ever Faked an Orgasm</h1>Author: <a title="Alex" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/alex/25192.htm">Alex</a> During stimulation, the first sensation might be the need to go to the loo, possibly because the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder is being pushed. You can check this out by making sure your bladder's empty first then seeing how it feels. The first couple of times it might be a bit odd, but many women say a little perseverance is more than worth it.

Below is a sample conversation involving this topic. Remember this conversation should NOT take place in the bedroom.

You: “Baby, I want to talk to you about something.”

Her: “What?”

You: “Well, before I ask you I just want you to know that I want you to be honest. You don't have to lie or hide anything from me ever, ok?”

Her: “Ok. Ask me.”

You: “Have you ever faked an orgasm with me?”

Her: “Of course not! Don't be silly!”

You: “I'm serious. I know most women have faked orgasms at some time or another, so I won't be shocked if you have. I just want to know so I can start changing some things I do in order to be a better lover to you.”

Her: “I may have faked it a couple of times, but you already are a good lover. It's probably just me.”

You: “Sweetheart, I don't think it's you. That's why the next time we're together I'm going to try some different things . . . things I think may help you stop having to fake it.”

At this point, she will probably be surprised at your reaction to her confession and impressed that you care so much about her pleasure in the bedroom. If, however, she continues to insist that she does not fake orgasms with you, then tell her that you're going to try some new techniques that will make it even easier for her to reach an orgasm with you. This way she won't be surprised when you begin experimenting, and she won't have to make a confession.

What She Likes

Probably the most important conversation you're going to have, however, when it comes to orgasms is asking her what she likes. This conversation usually can't happen anywhere else but in the bedroom, and it's not really the kind of conversation I can provide you an example of. What I can tell you is how I recommend for my clients to pursue this subject. After you've discussed with your partner your desire to be an even better lover, you should then explain that to do that you need to experiment a little and find out what she likes. If she's willing (and most partners probably will be), the next step is to set the mood. Use the foreplay techniques we discussed earlier in the book to help her become aroused, then have her stretch out on a comfortable surface, preferably a bed. She should, of course, be completely naked. The next step is for you to explore her body. Move your hands slowly over every inch of her skin. Try different strokes, different movements on each part and take note of the ones which bring about the most impressive results.

When you've explored her exterior, you're ready to some similar exploring inside her. Try rubbing her clitoris in a variety of patterns. If you have some toys, give them a try as well. The idea is to experiment as much as you can to see what makes her feel the best. Encourage your partner to let you know what feels good because that's the only way you'll be able to get better. After all of your experimenting, both of you will probably be pretty worked up so take the chance to try out one of the of the positions from the book and see what happens.

What You Need to Remember

When it comes to female orgasms, you and your partner are going to have to open the lines of communication. Even though lots of people have trouble talking about sex in and out of the bedroom, these conversations will provide you with a solid foundation on which to build. Here are a few of the important points I want you to keep in mind about this chapter.

1. Some sex conversations should be held in the bedroom while you're both relaxed and aroused. This can make you both less inhibited and more likely to honestly share your secrets. It also makes it easier for the two of you to take things to the next level if those secrets turn you on.

2. Not all women are comfortable talking about sex. As we've said, women vary in how comfortable they are with this subject. If your woman is a little more reserved, don't push her. Find ways of building trust with her and she will eventually open up to you.

3. The faked orgasm conversation is one that both of you need to have. By talking about this sensitive subject, you'll show that you really are the kind of lover your partner wants and needs.

4. Never be judgmental. One important thing to remember when you are sharing sexual secrets is that you cannot be judgmental of her. If you tell her what she's doing is wrong or bad, then she's going to feel worse about her own sexuality, close her mind to experimentation, and feel betrayed by you. All of this is going to hinder her ability to reach orgasm with you or her future partners. If you can't keep your negative opinions to yourself, then you probably shouldn't be asking her these questions in the first place.

Conclusion

We'll we've reached the end of our voyage through the ins and outs of female orgasms. As I've stressed throughout the book, no matter what kind of lover you think you are now, your interest in pleasing your partner in bed puts you above many of the men in the world who view their partner's enjoyment as secondary to their own. My hope is that this book provides you with some ideas, techniques, and positions which you can use with your partner to enhance not only her pleasure but also your own. After all, sex should not be a one-way street. Even though it's wonderful to want your partner to have a good time, you can't become so focused that you lose sight of your own.

Remember that above everything else, sex is about having fun and building closeness between two people. If you keep those things in mind at all times, then your sex lives are going to continue to improve and you'll become the greatest lovers you can be.About the Author: Gabrielle Moore is the author of The <a href="http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm">G Spot</a> Code, where she explains step-by-step how to please women the right way with a G Spot orgasm. Download your FREE Report from <a target="_blank" href="http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm/">http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm/</a>Article Source: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/">ArticlesBase.com</a> - <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/g-spot-and-discussing-did-she-ever-faked-an-orgasm-194556.html" title="G Spot and Discussing Did She Ever Faked an Orgasm">G Spot and Discussing Did She Ever Faked an Orgasm</a>

During stimulation, the first sensation might be the need to go to the loo, possibly because the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder is being pushed. You can check this out by making sure your bladder's empty first then seeing how it feels. The first couple of times it might be a bit odd, but many women say a little perseverance is more than worth it.

Below is a sample conversation involving this topic. Remember this conversation should NOT take place in the bedroom.

You: “Baby, I want to talk to you about something.”
Her: “What?”
You: “Well, before I ask you I just want you to know that I want you to be honest. You don't have to lie or hide anything from me ever, ok?”
Her: “Ok. Ask me.”
You: “Have you ever faked an orgasm with me?”
Her: “Of course not! Don't be silly!”
You: “I'm serious. I know most women have faked orgasms at some time or another, so I won't be shocked if you have. I just want to know so I can start changing some things I do in order to be a better lover to you.”
Her: “I may have faked it a couple of times, but you already are a good lover. It's probably just me.”
You: “Sweetheart, I don't think it's you. That's why the next time we're together I'm going to try some different things . . . things I think may help you stop having to fake it.”

At this point, she will probably be surprised at your reaction to her confession and impressed that you care so much about her pleasure in the bedroom. If, however, she continues to insist that she does not fake orgasms with you, then tell her that you're going to try some new techniques that will make it even easier for her to reach an orgasm with you. This way she won't be surprised when you begin experimenting, and she won't have to make a confession.

What She Likes

Probably the most important conversation you're going to have, however, when it comes to orgasms is asking her what she likes. This conversation usually can't happen anywhere else but in the bedroom, and it's not really the kind of conversation I can provide you an example of. What I can tell you is how I recommend for my clients to pursue this subject. After you've discussed with your partner your desire to be an even better lover, you should then explain that to do that you need to experiment a little and find out what she likes. If she's willing (and most partners probably will be), the next step is to set the mood. Use the foreplay techniques we discussed earlier in the book to help her become aroused, then have her stretch out on a comfortable surface, preferably a bed. She should, of course, be completely naked. The next step is for you to explore her body. Move your hands slowly over every inch of her skin. Try different strokes, different movements on each part and take note of the ones which bring about the most impressive results.

When you've explored her exterior, you're ready to some similar exploring inside her. Try rubbing her clitoris in a variety of patterns. If you have some toys, give them a try as well. The idea is to experiment as much as you can to see what makes her feel the best. Encourage your partner to let you know what feels good because that's the only way you'll be able to get better. After all of your experimenting, both of you will probably be pretty worked up so take the chance to try out one of the of the positions from the book and see what happens.

What You Need to Remember

When it comes to female orgasms, you and your partner are going to have to open the lines of communication. Even though lots of people have trouble talking about sex in and out of the bedroom, these conversations will provide you with a solid foundation on which to build. Here are a few of the important points I want you to keep in mind about this chapter.

1. Some sex conversations should be held in the bedroom while you're both relaxed and aroused. This can make you both less inhibited and more likely to honestly share your secrets. It also makes it easier for the two of you to take things to the next level if those secrets turn you on.

2. Not all women are comfortable talking about sex. As we've said, women vary in how comfortable they are with this subject. If your woman is a little more reserved, don't push her. Find ways of building trust with her and she will eventually open up to you.

3. The faked orgasm conversation is one that both of you need to have. By talking about this sensitive subject, you'll show that you really are the kind of lover your partner wants and needs.

4. Never be judgmental. One important thing to remember when you are sharing sexual secrets is that you cannot be judgmental of her. If you tell her what she's doing is wrong or bad, then she's going to feel worse about her own sexuality, close her mind to experimentation, and feel betrayed by you. All of this is going to hinder her ability to reach orgasm with you or her future partners. If you can't keep your negative opinions to yourself, then you probably shouldn't be asking her these questions in the first place.

Conclusion

We'll we've reached the end of our voyage through the ins and outs of female orgasms. As I've stressed throughout the book, no matter what kind of lover you think you are now, your interest in pleasing your partner in bed puts you above many of the men in the world who view their partner's enjoyment as secondary to their own. My hope is that this book provides you with some ideas, techniques, and positions which you can use with your partner to enhance not only her pleasure but also your own. After all, sex should not be a one-way street. Even though it's wonderful to want your partner to have a good time, you can't become so focused that you lose sight of your own.
Remember that above everything else, sex is about having fun and building closeness between two people. If you keep those things in mind at all times, then your sex lives are going to continue to improve and you'll become the greatest lovers you can be.

Gabrielle Moore is the author of The G Spot Code, where she explains step-by-step how to please women the right way with a G Spot orgasm. Download your FREE Report from http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm/

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By: Alex | 06/08/2007 | Marriage
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Feeling it during intercourse Depending on the size and exact location of your G-spot, you may or may not be able to feel stimulation during intercourse. You're most likely to feel something if you have your pelvis raised. Another popular position is to be on all fours or bending over from a standing position and allowing penetration from behind. You'll need to experiment. Discussing Orgasms With Your Partner We've talked about a lot of things in this book which should help you understand female orgasm better and should help you make it easier for your partner to achieve that goal as well. However, before you can really begin putting all of this information to use, you'll probably need to discuss orgasms with your partner.

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