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G Spot and Fantasy Scenarios
Author: Alex  | Posted: 01-08-2007 | Comments: 0 | Views: 165 | Rating: (53)  (?) 
The purported location of the G-spot has changed over time. Two primary methods have been used to attempt to locate it. The first is based on self-reported levels of arousal during stimulation and the second based on the claim that stimulation of the G-spot leads to female ejaculation. One of the studies using self-reported levels of arousal was a case study with a single woman who claimed the experience of a “deeper” orgasm when her G-spot was stimulated. In the published study it was reported that stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall made the area grow by fifty percent.Another study examined eleven women in an attempt to locate the spot under laboratory conditions. Researchers attempted to find the G-spot by “palpating the entire vagina in a clockwise fashion.” Using this technique the researchers reported discovering that four of the women had highly sensitive areas on the anterior vaginal wall.
Putting It All Together
So far in this article, we've gone over some techniques and positions you can use to help the woman in your life reach orgasm. In the previous article, we discussed a variety of foreplay techniques which can help get her in the right physical and mental state to climax. What I'd like to do in this section is give you some ideas on how to combine the two in order to create a truly amazing sexual experience for your partner. You don't have to attempt these ideas verbatim. You can mix and match the techniques and positions you like and you think your partner will like, but the idea of this section is to show you how to help her move from one stage of arousal to another seamlessly. These scenarios will read more like stories and do include named characters. As you read them, picture you and your partner engaging in the activities and try to determine whether each one is right for you.
Scenario 1 – Fantasy Land
Let's say your partner has a fantasy about being coerced into sex by a police officer. Of course, you know all about this fantasy. One evening when you come home from work, you change into a rented police officer costume in the garage before sneaking up the stairs to surprise her. She hears you coming up the stairs and turns to greet you, but without saying anything you pull her out of her chair and turned her against the wall so her back is to you.
“What are you doing?” she asks. “I have a warrant for your arrest,” you respond seriously. You can already feel yourself becoming aroused by being pressed up against her body, but you know you have to calm down and take it slow. “What?” she says, sounding confused and a little excited. “I'm going to have to search you now,” you tell her, “and because of the seriousness of your charge it's going to have to be a strip search.” She doesn't say anything else, but lets you run your hands down the front of her blouse to slowly undo each button before pulling it off and throwing it onto the floor. Then you release the buttons and zippers on her skirt and let it fall around her ankles on the floor. You start rubbing your hands slowly over her body, paying special attention to her lower back, the side of her neck, and the sides of her breasts because you know these are three of her most powerful erogenous zones. As you stroke her, you lean in and whisper in her ear: “You know, Baby, maybe we can work something out so you don't have to go to jail.”
“I'll do anything not to go to jail!” she pleads, now playing along with the game. “Anything?” She nods. You gently nibble on her ear while your hands cup her breasts, which are noticeable fuller than they had been earlier. You unhook her bra, slide it off her shoulders, then run your tongue from the base of her neck down to her elbow. You feel her shiver against your body.
“I'm still going to have to make sure you're not carrying any weapons,” you whisper in her ear, then run your palms slowly down both sides of her body and back up again. Now you pick up her vibrator and turn it on, then slowly run it up and down the inner part of her legs as if it were a hand-held metal detector. Then you playfully rub it against the outside of her panties. You could even use the vibrator to slide her panties down her legs so they are on the floor with her skirt. “I'll do whatever you want,” she whispers to you eagerly. You sit the vibrator aside and continue rubbing her entire body with your hands while softly blowing on the nape of her neck and pressing yourself tightly against her so she can feel your desire for her. “Now I'm going to take you over to the bed and make you feel more pleasure than you ever have before,” you whisper to her. She shows all the signs of being well into the plateau stage of arousal when you guide her over to the bed. “If you don't want to go to jail, you'll do exactly what I say,” you tell her.
Now have her stretch out face down on the bed, then have her scoot down so that her legs and pelvis are hanging off the edge of the bed. Quickly remove your own clothes, then gently grab her legs so her knees are in the crooks of your arms. Slide only the very top of your penis inside her, then remove it just as quickly. Tease her like this for a few minutes, then when she leasts expects it insert your entire penis inside her. If she groans deeply, you know she was ready for you. If not, you may want to go back to teasing her a little to get her worked up to that point. If you know your partner doesn't usually make noise, ask her how that feels and let her response guide your next action. If you get the green light, begin moving in and out of her in using a slower rhythm. You can speed up as things progress, but if you feel that your own orgasm is coming on to quickly, you need to slow down or switch positions until she is also close to reaching her climax.
Scenario 2 – Date Night
You and your partner are sharing a special dinner at your favorite restaurant. She looks sexier than usual. You reach across the table and softly stroke her hand. When she looks up, make eye contact with her and smile your most devilish grin so she knows you're thinking naughty thoughts. “I don't know if I'm going to make it through dinner without touching you,” you whisper to her across the table. She pretends to be embarrassed, but you can see she is flattered by the compliment. During the meal, find excuses to touch her. Drop your fork on the floor, then while you're picking it up, stop to run your hand all the way up her leg. When you excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, brush your fingertips over the nape of her neck or her earlobe. When you come back to the table, whisper something naughty in her ear about what you'd like to do to her when you get home. After dinner, while you're in the car on the way home, you should step your flirting up a notch. Again, find ways to touch her or kiss her while you're stopped at red lights. Use your fingertips to rub the inner part of her thigh or rub the upper part of her back, for example. In the car, you can be a little more vocal. Avoid getting too dirty or resulting to the use of vulgarities unless you already know that gets her hot. It turns some women on and turns other women off, so use your best judgment. Remember the more sexy she feels the more eager she's going to be for sex, so do your best to show her how hot she makes you. When you arrive home, don't wait to get to the bedroom to take your foreplay to the next level. Start kissing her, rubbing her body, and slowly undressing her as soon as you get out of the car. Don't be too pushy. If you feel her pulling back, then slow down as well. If you move too fast, you'll kill the mood and stop her from getting where she needs to be. Move her into the living room. If she's already naked and clearly at the top of the plateau stage, ease her back on to the couch. If she's not, keep the foreplay going. Slide a few of those decorative pillows under her bottom, then grab her legs and place one on each of your shoulders as you kneel on the couch in front of her. Remember when your penetration from this angle is going to be deep, so go slowly at first so you don't cause her any discomfort (some women feel pain from penetration when the penis touches the cervix).
As you're thrusting in and out of her with a good rhythm, use your index finger to play with her clitoris. Try different patterns of movement to see which brings about the best sounds of pleasure. Keep working the clitoris and your penis until you bring her to climax.
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• Standing 1 – Although rear entry is often a good method for helping your partner orgasm, not all women are comfortable being in the “doggy-style” position. A variation of that position can be done while standing, which is particularly useful for unusual locations, such as public bathrooms, or right after coming home from an evening out. You stand behind your partner while she is bent over slightly, then penetrate from the rear. The best thing about this position is that you can lovingly reach around her and stroke her clitoris while you're penetrating her from behind.
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Once you've established whether you've got one or not, you need to discover whether you have one that gives you pleasure or just feels a bit annoying. Stroking is usually the most enjoyable form of stimulation.
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Where is the G Spot?
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The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a women’s cervix.
The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5” to 3” inside the vagina.
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The G Spot for many women, it's a highly sensitive, highly erotic area that provides hours of pleasure. For others it's a knobbly bit that, when touched too much, creates an overwhelming sensation of needing a wee. Some women can't feel any sensation at all while others don't seem to have one at all.
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