I Want My Wife To Love Me Again

Are you unable to think about anything except "I want my wife to love me again"? Has your marriage gone by the wayside and you don't know why or what to do about it?

Here are some tips that can help you out.

If you don't know why your wife has stopped loving you (or so she says), then that's the first thing you need to figure out. First of all, if your wife is still with you, then she probably does still love you. If she didn't, she would be somewhere else. That is something positive you want to keep in mind.

So why is she saying that she doesn't love you or just acting like she doesn't love you?

The main reason that a woman will feel like she's fallen out of love is because she isn't getting the attention and appreciation that she craves.

Women are multi-faceted and do many things for you and your family. They work, take care of the kids, do all the household duties, have a social life that includes other friends and families and other interests that you both may not share.

Ask yourself, do you appreciate everything your wife does for you? Do you apprecitate that she is her own person and has her own ideas and interests, not all of which will be the same as yours. Do you appreciate all the little things she does to show you she cares?

If so, then you need to let her know if you haven't already.

On the other hand, there is such a thing as overdoing it.

You don't want to be fawning all over your wife and constantly asking her what's wrong and how you can help her or make her feel more loved. If you've been doing that and it's just making her push you away even more, then it's time to stop.

Don't be negative or hostile about it. Continue to be positive and cheerful.

Give her space.

Focus on taking care of yourself. Make sure you're eating right, exercising and going out with friends. Take the kids out on your own and leave your wife some time to herself. You can still offer comments up like "Boy, you sure do look nice today" but leave it at that. Then walk out the door and go to work.

Once you step back a bit and give your wife some space, as well as focus on yourself and show her that you are not going to die without her, she will start to see you as someone that is to be admired and appreciated as well. Take it slow and let her make the first move towards you again.

Hopefully this has helped you take some of the mystery and pain out of the statement "I want my wife to love me again."

For more definitive help .. especially if your marriage is already beyond the breaking stage .. you have to read How to Fix Your Broken Relationship.  

Do that and you will never look back and never again will a problem get to where it has gotten to now.