Is it a Good Idea to Have a Threesome With a Friend

Many women are afraid of doing it with a friend as they’re scared that it might damage the relationship with her. Another concern why women don’t want to involve their personal friends is because they’re afraid that the sexual encounter might evolve and become a relationship.

The reason this fear exists is because women have been strongly conditioned to believe that sex and love need to be together.
However I know that recreational sex can happen and can be very fulfilling!

I’m not disclosing this argument and saying that under no circumstances the friendship will be affected. Many of your concerns are probably present in your mind because you’re still holding an old paradigm.

I suggest you ask yourself new questions and explore your feelings with your partner first and then little by little do the same with your friend.

These are the most common concearns:

1) Will My Friend Steal Away My Man?
Some women are afraid that their friend might want to steal away their husband. This is an interesting issue, if you’re worried that your best friend might take away your man I suggest you look for another best friend, or work on your self-esteem and the relationship with your man.

Obviously your relationship isn’t as strong as it should be.

When participating in a threesome with your partner, you must already be in a loving and committed relationship otherwise it won’t work.
If you’re confident about yourself and your relationship you’ll establish a bond between the two of you that is sealed with confidence and trust. A threesome is an opportunity to get you closer to your steady partner; not more separate.
So if this is the issue that’s making you afraid of involving a friend, I suggest that you reconsider in participating in a threesome altogether.

2) Will She Steal Away My Woman?

Surprisingly enough, this will happen more often than a woman stealing a man. You see, for a guy is all about fucking and making their fantasy come true. Believe me 1 woman is complex enough, most guys don't want to "change woman", all they want is variety!

For women however, the situation is different... Women associate in a stronger way sex and emotions! So, this is even a more valid concearn to have!

My Solution: Friends with Concessions... do you remember in high school the term 'friend with concessions'.

Why not have many 'friends with concessions'? Why limit yourself to have one girlfriend. If you open your mind the possibilities are endless, Please do not think I'm saying that you should try to hit the sack with every single friend you have. Of course not.

While you develop and open your mind to new possibilities, you'll meet new friends. The great thing about being open to new experiences is that you'll have the chance to meet many beautiful women with whom you can develop a "Friendship with concessions".

CONCLUSION

Friends make great lovers because there is already an established bond, which is ready to be expanded. Friends could be the starting point for new adventures. However I trust you have enough common sense to realize that when your friends are not responding you won’t push them and risk your buddy relationship with them.