Lost That Loving Feeling?

<h1>Lost That Loving Feeling?</h1>Author: <a title="Rhonda Neely" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/rhonda-neely/285489.htm">Rhonda Neely</a> Submission guidelines: You are welcome to publish this article in your opt-in newsletter or on your website provided it is published in it's entirety, including the resource box.  Please email Rhonda@RhondaNeely.com of your intent to publish this article. If the love in your marriage is gone find out where it went.  Really!  Where did it go?  Love isn’t like a pair of keys that you’ve put down somewhere and can’t find.  It’s not like the remote control that could possibly be buried between the cushions of the couch.  Really now.  I’ve never heard the question “who has the love? I can’t find it anywhere in this house!”  Or what about a statement like “I can’t find my darn love.  I must have left it somewhere, but I just can’t remember where.”  Ok, I think you probably get the picture, right? Let me tell you what love is and how to find it the next time you think you’ve lost it. 1 Corinthian 13:4-7 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. There it is, the truth straight from the bible, what love is. If you’re reading here you are searching how to find that lovin feeling you’ve lost. Love is patient – how patient are you with your spouse? Love is kind – what have you done kind for your spouse lately? It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud – does envy, boast or proud describe you? It is not rude – I know there comes a time that you’ve been rude to your spouse, am I right? It is not self-seeking – oh boy, here is the big one!  Self-centeredness is the biggest reason for divorce.  Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking of your spouse. It’s not easily angered – men, this is usually you.  Are you able to keep yourself from being angered by your spouse? It keeps no record of wrongs – women, this is talking to you.  Can you not let go of the wrong you’ve been done?  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth. Love rejoices in truth.  Truth of the word possibly?  Are you living the truth and rejoicing in truth? It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always preserves! Now, I ask you, where did that lovin feeling go?   (c) Copyright 2008, Rhonda Neely <a href="http://www.rhondaneely.com/"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.RhondaNeely.com">http://www.RhondaNeely.com</a></a> -------------------------------   (c) 2008 Rhonda Neely ------------------------------- About the author:  Rhonda Neely, Certified Christian Life Coach - Do you feel that your marriage has lost that loving feeling?  Lost it’s spark?  That doesn’t mean that your relationship is over, it simply means that you need some coaching on a new way of thinking. Go to <a href="http://www.rhondaneely.com/sq"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.RhondaNeely.com/sq">http://www.RhondaNeely.com/sq</a></a> and sign up to startAbout the Author: Rhonda Neely is a Certified Christian Life Coach specializing in marriage and family coaching based on Christian values. She has helped many families successfully restore their marriage or other types of relationships. As a Life Coach, Rhonda provides an ongoing partnership with her clients, designed to help them produce fulfilling results in their personal life. Rhonda helps people improve their own performance with forward movement action steps to enhance the skills that the client already has. Rhonda received her certification through PCCCA (Professional Christian Coaching and Counseling Academy) and has continued her education through Coaching4Clergy. Sign up to receive her monthly “Commit” newsletter and receive “5 Ways to Keep a Marriage Healthy” at her website at <a target="_blank" href="http://www.RhondaNeely.com/sq.">http://www.RhondaNeely.com/sq.</a>Article Source: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/">ArticlesBase.com</a> - <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/lost-that-loving-feeling-1452385.html" title="Lost That Loving Feeling?">Lost That Loving Feeling?</a>

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If the love in your marriage is gone find out where it went. Really! Where did it go? Love isn’t like a pair of keys that you’ve put down somewhere and can’t find. It’s not like the remote control that could possibly be buried between the cushions of the couch. Really now. I’ve never heard the question “who has the love? I can’t find it anywhere in this house!” Or what about a statement like “I can’t find my darn love. I must have left it somewhere, but I just can’t remember where.” Ok, I think you probably get the picture, right?

Let me tell you what love is and how to find it the next time you think you’ve lost it.

1 Corinthian 13:4-7 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

There it is, the truth straight from the bible, what love is.

If you’re reading here you are searching how to find that lovin feeling you’ve lost.

Love is patient – how patient are you with your spouse?

Love is kind – what have you done kind for your spouse lately?

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud – does envy, boast or proud describe you?

It is not rude – I know there comes a time that you’ve been rude to your spouse, am I right?
It is not self-seeking – oh boy, here is the big one! Self-centeredness is the biggest reason for divorce. Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking of your spouse.

It’s not easily angered – men, this is usually you. Are you able to keep yourself from being angered by your spouse?

It keeps no record of wrongs – women, this is talking to you. Can you not let go of the wrong you’ve been done?
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth.

Love rejoices in truth. Truth of the word possibly? Are you living the truth and rejoicing in truth?

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always preserves!

Now, I ask you, where did that lovin feeling go?

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About the author: Rhonda Neely, Certified Christian Life Coach -
Do you feel that your marriage has lost that loving feeling? Lost it’s spark? That doesn’t mean that your relationship is over, it simply means that you need some coaching on a new way of thinking.
Go to http://www.RhondaNeely.com/sq and sign up to start

Rhonda Neely is a Certified Christian Life Coach specializing in marriage and family coaching based on Christian values. She has helped many families successfully restore their marriage or other types of relationships. As a Life Coach, Rhonda provides an ongoing partnership with her clients, designed to help them produce fulfilling results in their personal life. Rhonda helps people improve their own performance with forward movement action steps to enhance the skills that the client already has. Rhonda received her certification through PCCCA (Professional Christian Coaching and Counseling Academy) and has continued her education through Coaching4Clergy. Sign up to receive her monthly “Commit” newsletter and receive “5 Ways to Keep a Marriage Healthy” at her website at http://www.RhondaNeely.com/sq.

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