The Morning After a Threesome

Relationships Transformed

Sometimes, the transformation from friends to lovers can be a bit awkward. It doesn’t matter how well you’ve planned or how competently you’ve executed your seduction; the three of you have gone through drastic changes without you realizing it.

Most likely for the first time in your life you’ve watched others have sex, and more important, you’ve shared your lover with another person! The two ladies have indulged in desires their parents would never understand. The guy has watched his partner experience a type of pleasure he’ll never have the chance to fully know. Your invited friend has set a new one-night record, adding not ONE but TWO new lovers to her life!

Because you crossed the barrier between a desired-fantasy and the acted-upon fantasy, the morning after, when the passion and excitement wears off is bound to feel awkward for the three of you if you haven’t taken it into consideration in your planning.

Good Morning Honeys, Now What?

Strange enough, the awkwardness won’t be about what actually happened last night, but how the three of you perceive what happened last night! This piece of advice makes the whole difference in the entire ordeal and is worth 10 times the price you paid for this manual!

When you wake up the morning after, the three of you are going to have questions that are going to be rumbling inside of your mind...

Was I a good enough lover to make everyone else happy?
Is my best friend sorry she let me between her legs?
Does my friend think I’m a slut?
What does he think after watching me kiss and make love to a woman?
Is my wife going to resent how much I enjoyed her friend?
Is anyone sorry?
Will our relationship change?
Did I do anything that neither of them expected?

To better prepare for the “morning after”, I suggest that you talk to your partner prior to your seduction and together try to visualize how that morning will be! You need to give each other permission to experiment freely without feeling watched or observed during the night; at the end of the day that’s what it is all about, isn't it? Promise each other that the threesome you’re about to experience isn’t so much about you two, but about making the THIRD PERSON feel great as we discussed earlier!

Great Things to Say

The following morning you have to thank your guest for such a fantastic evening to alleviate all her doubts! Just a few words can make all her uncertainties disappear, in order to make her feel good about last night it will be great if you say things like this:

That was the most exciting night of our lives! Thank you for sharing our bed.
I can't tell you how much I enjoyed last night...You are fantastic.
You two are fantastic women...You made every man's dream come true.
Darling, thank you for helping me seduce her! I loved sharing you with her.
Honey, I loved watching you together.

Remember, the morning after will be the one and only chance that you’ll have to make her feel loved, desired and wanted. The last thing you want is for her to feel in any way used! So, what ever time she spends the following morning together with you guys, she needs still to be the focus of attention. Later on you’ll have time to share, talk and connect with your partner, but for the time being she’s the “princess”!

How you deal with the "morning after" will greatly affect how many more threesomes will follow! Remind yourselves that whatever happens; you should not withdraw! If you make her feel like a stranger in a strange land, you’ll not only damage the relationship, but you’ll make her think that what she did was wrong. And very likely she’ll never repeat a threesome ever again. How you treat her the following morning determines how she’ll also feel about you and the threesome just experienced. So, even if you’re not a morning person, attempt to make your guest feel welcomed, loved and accepted. Include her in your morning routine, have breakfast in bed together and let her help you clean up last night's mess if she wants to.

Suzy Bauer