Azura Austen Azeez; lecturer with a prominent university in Malaysia. Click here for more FREE tips on Relationships, Beauty and Health.
A wedding celebration is summed up with the exchange of the “I do’s”. Well, this is just the beginning. There are more exchanges of words expected in any marriage. To maintain harmony, each of the spouses must manifest respect to the other. Simply be courteous, both in words and in actions.Courtesy is not all about table manners or social formalities. It is simply an active choice of doing the proper things at the proper time, like displaying gratitude when there is something to be thankful for or expressing sweet words of love.Say the Magic WordsDo not let politeness be forgotten in the relationship. To be courteous to each other is not difficult. One only has to remember the magic words taught back in the early days. Here are some phrases that would definitely count.1. “Please.” Requesting for something to be done will sound better if coupled with this simple word.2. “Thank You.” These two words express gratitude for someone who went out of the way to do something special.3. “You’re welcome.” Even in married life, each of the spouses still deserves such sweet and comforting phrases. Their lasting effects are not to be underestimated. These words never go out of style. 4. “I'm sorry”.Apologize once you have realize your mistake. Even if it is not solely your mistake, there's no harm in doing so.5. “I Love You”.These magic words are perhaps the most powerful and most influential in any relationship. Do let your loved ones know how you feel every now and then.Be Courteous in Your Actions Courtesy can also be extended on many other occasions. Some examples are:1. Return phone calls. 2.Remembering and celebrating anniversaries and birthdays are definitely plus points. Do not fall out of these habits. Common courtesy is deserved by others. Coupled with the thought of doing such things will definitely make the spouse worthy of respect.These simplest and most ordinary things done everyday are actually the best things to take note of when trying to improve the marriage. If one aims for more intimacy and openness in the marriage, such simple and intimate ways of communication must be encouraged.
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