25 Keys to Getting What You Want

Like most people you probably want to make a difference. There is something you dream of doing, something that will leave a mark in the universe, if only you had that trait, ability, bank account or thing, then you could have the impact you desire.
There are many things you want and have wanted in your life. Some of them you got while others you did not. What is it that would allow me to get what I want in life? This is an inquiry that has kept man engaged for centuries. I can't answer the question fully here so I offer these keys as a beginning to your own inquiry.

1. Know What You Don't Want - It may sound logical, but before you can get what you want you need to be clear about what you don't want.

2. Know What You Do Want - You need to be clear about what you want. The more vivid the image and the more feeling that accompanies it the better. Always state what you want in positive terms.

3. The Universe Is Energy - At the most fundamental level everything is energy, and energy is unlimited, therefore, there is no limit to what can be created.

4. Everything Comes From Thought - Look around the room you are in. Everything you see started as idea in someone's mind. Someone has or is making a fortune on that idea.

5. The Law of Attraction - Getting what you want starts with understanding what you want is already being attracted to you by that wanting.

6. The Law of Deliberate Creation - The more specific you can be in your wanting, the faster you will begin to attract what you want.

7. The Law of Allowing - It is in allowing what we want into our lives where most of us get stuck. We create what we want and the universe starts it on our way and then we block it's fulfillment through some word or thought.

8. Be Aware of How You Think - If you are human, you have some thoughts that limit what is possible for yourself. If you can distinguish those thoughts you will begin to have power over them.

9. Transform Your Thinking - This begins from the inside, but is most influenced by what you feed your mind (Tip 13). Don't participate with negative people or entertain negative thoughts.

10. Notice Your Speaking - Listen to your speaking and ask others to listen for disempowering language. As your speaking goes, so goes your life.

11. Transform Your Speaking - Always speak positively to achieve success. Never gossip or speak badly of others.

12. Be Present to Your Limiting Thoughts - When you find yourself thinking self-limiting thoughts, STOP. This would be a good time for an affirmation (Tip 16) or to call your coach (Tip 21).

13. Court Positive Influences - Read and listen to positive, spiritual and motivational speakers, books and tapes and surround yourself with positive, successful people.

14. Harness The Power of Your Subconscious Mind - The subconscious mind cannot distinguish between fantasy and reality. Whatever you put into the subconscious will be expressed in your life.

15. What You Don't Distinguish, Runs Your Life - There are thoughts you have and ways of being you are that are the result of something you put into your subconscious mind. If you can distinguish these thoughts as something you made up, you will regain your power in that area of life.

16. The Power of Affirmation - By writing and speaking affirmations, you will begin to reprogram your subconscious mind toward what you want.

17. Well-Being Abounds - The predominant order of the universe is well-being. When you become present to this the negative occurrences in your life will not stop you, in fact you may notice that they stop happening to you.

18. Help Others Get What They Want - If you focus on helping others get what they want you will naturally create value for yourself and get what you want.

19. Don't Work For Money, Work for Your Vision - Your vision will always be a stronger motivator than money. Just make sure your vision includes more that just you (Tip 25).

20. Be Straight With Yourself and Others - Don't be afraid to be honest with yourself and others. If you are hiding something, it remains in your subconscious blocking what you want from manifesting. In other words, be real with yourself and others.

21. You Can't Do It Alone - There is no way you can get what you want, and have it last, if you don't enroll others in your vision. Let others contribute to your success. Get a coach.

22. Be Willing to Give More Than You Get - Always provide more value for others than you get in compensation. Go the extra mile and always leave them satisfied with your work.

23. Don't Compare What You Have With Another - The only measure of success is the one you set for yourself, based on your own vision. When you compare your results with others, you send conflicting thoughts to your subconscious and block the true blessing that is already yours.

24. Do What You Love - If you are doing what you love there will be no conflict or doubts in your conscious or subconscious mind. What you want will naturally manifest itself.

25. Make Sure Your Vision Serves the Greatest Good - Be sure your vision serves the largest number of people possible, even if you serve only one person. Be a contributor to the balance of well-being in the world.