Pathway to Life Fulfillment, a Unique Factor in the Process

<h1>Pathway to Life Fulfillment, a Unique Factor in the Process</h1>Author: <a title="Thompson Ogunsanmi" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/thompson-ogunsanmi/82533.htm">Thompson Ogunsanmi</a> Everyone in life seeks for fulfillment of one dream or the other. When one dreams come to reality, it is a thing of joy and this is one of the reasons for living. Life is all about fulfillment, when it is becoming otherwise, frustration begins to set in. there are many channels to pass through in fulfilling one’s dreams. Some means might be logical and involve lots of calculation and sleepless nights. Some go as far as consulting a medium to achieve their dream while some think with hard labour, fulfillment will come there way. But I have discovered that it has always been difficult for people to move to the level of life’s fulfillment without involving God in the process. There is need to seek God, the author of existing lives for life’s fulfillment not to be frustrating The book of Jeremiah Chapter twenty-nine and verse number thirteen established it that “and ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with your heart”. A condition was attached when God made the declaration and it has been underlined above. Let us concentrate on the issue below as it affects as many who wish to see God as a factor to be considered in fulfilling his/her dream:  They shall find God and live This is to let you know that seeking God really matter with your mindset. God wants you to seek after this through searching and with ‘all’ of your heart. Do not seek him because of your need but seek him to take care of your need as at when due. Many are today in the church because of nothing but a need. Such a need has been given a primary place in their heart and if there will be any adjustment God wants to do over the need, it becomes difficult to accept. You can easily adjust the place of God in your heart (through compromise) as a way of getting your need and this could be of detrimental effects. Do you know that whatever you go to the church to find you can easily make your way to get? If you go in search of wife or husband, putting God aside in the process by not seeking Him, as you ought to, really you will get your desire fulfilled but life’s fulfillment will be at stake. Many come to make business contracts in the church and really their desires were met but because their plan sets God aside, it might turn out later to be otherwise. Getting wife, husband, and connections of any sort from the church is never wrong but it is dangerous when it becomes the only motive of coming to God’s presence. And forget not that He understands the position of your heart, “They plot injustice and say, “We have devised a perfect plan!” Surely the mind and heart of man are cunning. (Ps 64:6) Jesus Christ told those who were seeking him because of bread to be careful as that very reason does not worth seeking God. Jesus discovered the people wanted him not as king of kings but as “king of provision”, (of bread and butter) and this defies the purpose of His coming to rescue the generality of Everyone in life seeks for fulfillment of one dream or the other. When one dreams come to reality, it is a thing of joy and this is one of the reasons for living. Life is all about fulfillment, when it is becoming otherwise, frustration begins to set in. there are many channels to pass through in fulfilling one’s dreams. Some means might be logical and involve lots of calculation and sleepless nights. Some go as far as consulting a medium to achieve their dream while some think with hard labour, fulfillment will come there way. But I have discovered that it has always been difficult for people to move to the level of life’s fulfillment without involving God in the process. There is need to seek God, the author of existing lives for life’s fulfillment not to be frustrating The book of Jeremiah Chapter twenty-nine and verse number thirteen established it that “and ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with your heart”. A condition was attached when God made the declaration and it has been underlined above. Let us concentrate on the issue below as it affects as many who wish to see God as a factor to be considered in fulfilling his/her dream: They shall find God and live This is to let you know that seeking God really matter with your mindset. God wants you to seek after this through searching and with ‘all’ of your heart. Do not seek him because of your need but seek him to take care of your need as at when due. Many are today in the church because of nothing but a need. Such a need has been given a primary place in their heart and if there will be any adjustment God wants to do over the need, it becomes difficult to accept. You can easily adjust the place of God in your heart (through compromise) as a way of getting your need and this could be of detrimental effects. Do you know that whatever you go to the church to find you can easily make your way to get? If you go in search of wife or husband, putting God aside in the process by not seeking Him, as you ought to, really you will get your desire fulfilled but life’s fulfillment will be at stake. Many come to make business contracts in the church and really their desires were met but because their plan sets God aside, it might turn out later to be otherwise. Getting wife, husband, and connections of any sort from the church is never wrong but it is dangerous when it becomes the only motive of coming to God’s presence. And forget not that He understands the position of your heart, “They plot injustice and say, “We have devised a perfect plan!” Surely the mind and heart of man are cunning. (Ps 64:6) Jesus Christ told those who were seeking him because of bread to be careful as that very reason does not worth seeking God. Jesus discovered the people wanted him not as king of kings but as “king of provision”, (of bread and butter) and this defies the purpose of His coming to rescue the generality of humanity. The crowd was surprised to discover that seeking Jesus is more than what we need from Him but what He needed to do in us should be preferred to the bread we want which is of ephemeral. (Read, John 6:22-27). Those who genuinely seek God will surely find Him and live (Amos 5:4; 2 chronicles 15:2) but motive behind the seeking process matters, “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” - Jeremiah 29:13  They shall not want “The young lions do lack, and suffer hunger: but they that seek the Lord shall not want any good thing” (psalm 34:10). From the above, it could be deduced that seeking God is considered before the need. Likewise it has been written that the kingdom of God and his righteousness should be sought first then other things (cars, mansions, academics and materials breakthroughs, marriage, job, healing, deliverance, etc.) shall be added (math. 6:33). The Lord Jesus emphasized on being anxious right from verse 25 of Matthew Chapter 6. The very reason why many are in want today is because of anxiousness, and Jesus said which of you by being anxious could add one cubit to his span of life? This remains a proof that it takes God and not yourself neither your struggle nor your toiling to get your dare need met. All that you need should be centralized upon your ability to seek God without setting back in doing so. The birds of the air, Jesus said they neither sow nor reap nor getting into barns, and yet your heavenly father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? (Mathew 6:26) stop struggling on your own without involving God by seeking Him. By strength shall no man prevail (Isaiah 2:9) that strength could be your family background; whether you are born with silver spoon but that is not the conclusion of you breaking even in life unless God approves you. Your own strength could be the educational level you have attained. You might fail if you solely relied on your certificate without seeking God’s approval. Some are having godfathers (in the government) they can get to Aso rock of Nigeria, and white House of America at anytime because that is where their strength lies but be it known to you that, arm of flesh will out rightly fail you if you refuse to put your trust in God and in Him alone. One day of favour with God is more than many years of labour. When His favour comes, you are launched into abundance in all ramifications. Let it becomes a registered issue that those who seek God will never be in want.  They shall be blessed  To be blessed of God involves seeking Him. Many of the blessed Bible characters we read about today sought for God earnestly. Imagine Abraham with whom we claim blessing through today, he paid the price of the greatness of his blessing through consistence in seeking God and adhering strictly to His directives and leadings. Let us briefly examine some things about him considering some specific instructions God gave him;” Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great so that you will be a blessing” (Gen. 12:1-2).  Verse four of the same chapter above made it known how this man followed God’s instructions without questioning. The fact that the land where he was expected to go was not named. This increased the demand on Abraham and made his self-surrendering faith and seeking of God more absolute. God consolidated him into the realm of blessing with divine backing of His covenant. Abraham became the blessed of the Lord because he chose to seek Him more than any other thing. If today you choose to be blessed of God, begin to seek His face for obedience and be ready to follow Him diligently & dogmatically and you will journey into abundance. Ezra 8:22 say; “The hand of our God is upon all those for good, who seek Him…” it is for blessing and every other thing that could be tagged ‘good’. What God has helped us to discover as one of the major obstacles why many have not experienced breakthrough is the fact that they are not mature for it. If it comes now, it takes their attention from God. God is much more interested in our souls. However, He wants us to be blessed but not at the expense of missing heaven. But when you seek Him, you will acquire what it takes to be able to maturely handle the blessing and at the same time reduce not your commitment for Him. Therefore, let those who seek God be prepared for his blessing.  They shall not be Forsaken. “And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, Lord, hast not     forsaken them that seek thee” - psalm. 9:10. To be forsaken of God remains a miserable situation a man can encounter in connection with His Maker. When you are sure of God being with you” then your need is a settled matter. The greatest tragedy that can befall a man is when such a man is alive and something dies inside of him. While he continues to live in this material world: the Holy Spirit withdraws as a result of sinful acts. This makes such one to be forsaken, no green light of God’s presence. When you loose touch with the password that takes you to His presence, you became irrelevant to His precious gifts and His precious presents as well. Many of us today do not know that to be sure of God’s presence is greater than silver and gold. Let me give you the Biblical definition of prosperity in the context of the life and experience of Joseph. The Bible refers to Joseph as a prosperous man while he was a slave under the custody and monitoring of Pharaoh. But it was one condition that brought about Joseph being regarded as a prosperous man. This condition could be found in Gen. 39:2-3 and it reads thus:” The Lord was with Joseph, and he became a successful man; and he was in the house of his master the Egyptian, and the Lord was with him, and caused all that he did to prosper in his hands”.  When you have God and not being forsaken of Him, you are a prosperous man. It takes His presence to become a success in all our undertakings,” And David had success in all his undertaking; for the Lord was with him “-  1 Samuel 18:14 Therefore, keep maintaining a good relationship with God and you will keep enjoying His blessing with much favour but little or no labour, for it is the blessing of God that can make one acquires wealth in the face of no compromise. If you are not forsaken, then you have the power to get wealth inside of you; for it is God who gives the power to have wealth (?) and no sorrow will be involved (proverbs 10:22). They Shall Be Greatly Rewarded Forget not that I am discussing about those who seek God. There are rewards for those who choose to seek God. The rewards take care of their dare needs and they cannot be in want and what is the reason (or mystery) behind this? “God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him”. Apart from the reward of making it to the His presence in heaven, right from this world, the joy of the kingdom will be springing forth and part of it will be as a result of seeking first the kingdom of God, and having fulfilled this conditions, every other things are bound to be added (Mathew 6:33). Those other things are your “DARE NEEDS”, they shall all be taken care of by God Himself. When you are fond of seeking God, His blessings will always be found of you. Divinely, the flow of God’s blessing will trace you out of where you might be hidden.  In conclusion, show me a man who seeks God. Such a man seeks good things while on earth and more glorious things await him in the world to come. The seeking of the Lord I am addressing might not be easy. You know, men generally like roses, (the king of flowers) but not roses’ thorns and it is quite impossible to get roses without its thorns. Learn to allow God to be involved in your fulfillment today and you will be accelerated into your manifestation and expectation.        About the Author: It is a thing of great joy to know that this kind of site is in existence where l can publish many articles for free. You are doing a great work to humanity and this generation because some thoughs and feelings expressed by people would been within their mind frame without your support. Bravo!Article Source: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/">ArticlesBase.com</a> - <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/motivational-articles/pathway-to-life-fulfillment-a-unique-factor-in-the-process-572262.html" title="Pathway to Life Fulfillment, a Unique Factor in the Process">Pathway to Life Fulfillment, a Unique Factor in the Process</a>

Everyone in life seeks for fulfillment of one dream or the other. When one dreams come to reality, it is a thing of joy and this is one of the reasons for living. Life is all about fulfillment, when it is becoming otherwise, frustration begins to set in. there are many channels to pass through in fulfilling one’s dreams. Some means might be logical and involve lots of calculation and sleepless nights. Some go as far as consulting a medium to achieve their dream while some think with hard labour, fulfillment will come there way. But I have discovered that it has always been difficult for people to move to the level of life’s fulfillment without involving God in the process. There is need to seek God, the author of existing lives for life’s fulfillment not to be frustrating

The book of Jeremiah Chapter twenty-nine and verse number thirteen established it that “and ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with your heart”. A condition was attached when God made the declaration and it has been underlined above. Let us concentrate on the issue below as it affects as many who wish to see God as a factor to be considered in fulfilling his/her dream:

They shall find God and live

This is to let you know that seeking God really matter with your mindset. God wants you to seek after this through searching and with ‘all’ of your heart. Do not seek him because of your need but seek him to take care of your need as at when due. Many are today in the church because of nothing but a need. Such a need has been given a primary place in their heart and if there will be any adjustment God wants to do over the need, it becomes difficult to accept. You can easily adjust the place of God in your heart (through compromise) as a way of getting your need and this could be of detrimental effects. Do you know that whatever you go to the church to find you can easily make your way to get? If you go in search of wife or husband, putting God aside in the process by not seeking Him, as you ought to, really you will get your desire fulfilled but life’s fulfillment will be at stake. Many come to make business contracts in the church and really their desires were met but because their plan sets God aside, it might turn out later to be otherwise. Getting wife, husband, and connections of any sort from the church is never wrong but it is dangerous when it becomes the only motive of coming to God’s presence. And forget not that He understands the position of your heart, “They plot injustice and say, “We have devised a perfect plan!” Surely the mind and heart of man are cunning. (Ps 64:6)

They shall find God and live

Jesus Christ told those who were seeking him because of bread to be careful as that very reason does not worth seeking God. Jesus discovered the people wanted him not as king of kings but as “king of provision”, (of bread and butter) and this defies the purpose of His coming to rescue the generality of humanity. The crowd was surprised to discover that seeking Jesus is more than what we need from Him but what He needed to do in us should be preferred to the bread we want which is of ephemeral. (Read, John 6:22-27). Those who genuinely seek God will surely find Him and live (Amos 5:4; 2 chronicles 15:2) but motive behind the seeking process matters, “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” - Jeremiah 29:13

They shall not want

“The young lions do lack, and suffer hunger: but they that seek the Lord shall not want any good thing” (psalm 34:10). From the above, it could be deduced that seeking God is considered before the need. Likewise it has been written that the kingdom of God and his righteousness should be sought first then other things (cars, mansions, academics and materials breakthroughs, marriage, job, healing, deliverance, etc.) shall be added (math. 6:33). The Lord Jesus emphasized on being anxious right from verse 25 of Matthew Chapter 6. The very reason why many are in want today is because of anxiousness, and Jesus said which of you by being anxious could add one cubit to his span of life? This remains a proof that it takes God and not yourself neither your struggle nor your toiling to get your dare need met. All that you need should be centralized upon your ability to seek God without setting back in doing so. The birds of the air, Jesus said they neither sow nor reap nor getting into barns, and yet your heavenly father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? (Mathew 6:26) stop struggling on your own without involving God by seeking Him. By strength shall no man prevail (Isaiah 2:9) that strength could be your family background; whether you are born with silver spoon but that is not the conclusion of you breaking even in life unless God approves you.

Your own strength could be the educational level you have attained. You might fail if you solely relied on your certificate without seeking God’s approval. Some are having godfathers (in the government) they can get to Aso rock of Nigeria, and white House of America at anytime because that is where their strength lies but be it known to you that, arm of flesh will out rightly fail you if you refuse to put your trust in God and in Him alone. One day of favour with God is more than many years of labour. When His favour comes, you are launched into abundance in all ramifications. Let it becomes a registered issue that those who seek God will never be in want.

They shall be blessed

To be blessed of God involves seeking Him. Many of the blessed Bible characters we read about today sought for God earnestly. Imagine Abraham with whom we claim blessing through today, he paid the price of the greatness of his blessing through consistence in seeking God and adhering strictly to His directives and leadings. Let us briefly examine some things about him considering some specific instructions God gave him;” Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great so that you will be a blessing” (Gen. 12:1-2).

Verse four of the same chapter above made it known how this man followed God’s instructions without questioning. The fact that the land where he was expected to go was not named. This increased the demand on Abraham and made his self-surrendering faith and seeking of God more absolute. God consolidated him into the realm of blessing with divine backing of His covenant. Abraham became the blessed of the Lord because he chose to seek Him more than any other thing. If today you choose to be blessed of God, begin to seek His face for obedience and be ready to follow Him diligently & dogmatically and you will journey into abundance. Ezra 8:22 say; “The hand of our God is upon all those for good, who seek Him…” it is for blessing and every other thing that could be tagged ‘good’. What God has helped us to discover as one of the major obstacles why many have not experienced breakthrough is the fact that they are not mature for it. If it comes now, it takes their attention from God. God is much more interested in our souls. However, He wants us to be blessed but not at the expense of missing heaven. But when you seek Him, you will acquire what it takes to be able to maturely handle the blessing and at the same time reduce not your commitment for Him. Therefore, let those who seek God be prepared for his blessing.

They shall not be Forsaken.

“And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, Lord, hast not forsaken them that seek thee” - psalm. 9:10. To be forsaken of God remains a miserable situation a man can encounter in connection with His Maker. When you are sure of God being with you” then your need is a settled matter. The greatest tragedy that can befall a man is when such a man is alive and something dies inside of him. While he continues to live in this material world: the Holy Spirit withdraws as a result of sinful acts. This makes such one to be forsaken, no green light of God’s presence. When you loose touch with the password that takes you to His presence, you became irrelevant to His precious gifts and His precious presents as well. Many of us today do not know that to be sure of God’s presence is greater than silver and gold. Let me give you the Biblical definition of prosperity in the context of the life and experience of Joseph. The Bible refers to Joseph as a prosperous man while he was a slave under the custody and monitoring of Pharaoh. But it was one condition that brought about Joseph being regarded as a prosperous man. This condition could be found in Gen. 39:2-3 and it reads thus:” The Lord was with Joseph, and he became a successful man; and he was in the house of his master the Egyptian, and the Lord was with him, and caused all that he did to prosper in his hands”.

When you have God and not being forsaken of Him, you are a prosperous man. It takes His presence to become a success in all our undertakings,” And David had success in all his undertaking; for the Lord was with him “- 1 Samuel 18:14

Therefore, keep maintaining a good relationship with God and you will keep enjoying His blessing with much favour but little or no labour, for it is the blessing of God that can make one acquires wealth in the face of no compromise. If you are not forsaken, then you have the power to get wealth inside of you; for it is God who gives the power to have wealth (?) and no sorrow will be involved (proverbs 10:22).

They Shall Be Greatly Rewarded

Forget not that I am discussing about those who seek God. There are rewards for those who choose to seek God. The rewards take care of their dare needs and they cannot be in want and what is the reason (or mystery) behind this? “God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him”. Apart from the reward of making it to the His presence in heaven, right from this world, the joy of the kingdom will be springing forth and part of it will be as a result of seeking first the kingdom of God, and having fulfilled this conditions, every other things are bound to be added (Mathew 6:33). Those other things are your “DARE NEEDS”, they shall all be taken care of by God Himself. When you are fond of seeking God, His blessings will always be found of you. Divinely, the flow of God’s blessing will trace you out of where you might be hidden.

In conclusion, show me a man who seeks God. Such a man seeks good things while on earth and more glorious things await him in the world to come. The seeking of the Lord I am addressing might not be easy. You know, men generally like roses, (the king of flowers) but not roses’ thorns and it is quite impossible to get roses without its thorns. Learn to allow God to be involved in your fulfillment today and you will be accelerated into your manifestation and expectation.

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