If You’re After a Modern Woman, be a Modern Man

Unless you are truly led by the desire to be unattached, or live in a third world country, as a man on this contemporary, mostly-liberal civilized planet, you have to develop a certain consistency in your mannerisms; you have to become what you should’ve already: a gentleman. Don’t be disheartened. We have blazed a trail; we have found a way to turn the acts of the proverbial “girly-man” into something that can now easily be construed as hip, modern, intelligent, and therefore sexy; hence desirable.

It had to happen. In the evolutionary pattern that nature has been dictated through the laws of natural selection to embrace, women took their innate powers, developed them, along with the courage to be beat down and rise up time and time again, and raised themselves, their gender in general, to a place that demands respect and will not accept anything less. This is a powerful lesson for the modern man to embrace.

The ethnocentrism component of your personality necessary to pull off this new sensitive act cannot be faked. Women are powerfully intelligent. Don’t underestimate their forces, both subtle and direct, to outsmart you in a most mischievous way if they are so provoked. Why not embrace the new, yet aged, foundations of womanhood? If you think that you are going to gain the love and respect of a neo-feministic woman without some true searching into your own feminine side, you are surely erroneous. In other words guys, wise up. Women are seriously capable of kicking your butts if you underestimate their abilities and intelligence. What would we do if we were women? See?

Now that you’re in touch with your girl sides, let’s think about how to spin this in our favor guys. If you are even able to launch into action any strategy for success in the arena of woman conquering, you are going to need to know at least a few basic moves. Pay attention:

Show your strength in a calm, secure fashion. Do not jump towards any extremes of emotional behavior. This will land you an almost instant reputation, amongst the ladies, as a bitch. Oh yeah, that’s attractive. Forethought, composure under fire, and confidence in your own manly abilities will land the lady in your world a lot sooner, and firmly. You should have no need for her to see your masculine side; all she wants or needs is your understanding and desire. Save the macho stuff for attackers, intruders, trespassers, or anything else that might at any time threaten her ease of living. Take some of your Herculean time to focus on her world. She is soft. She is gentle. Allow her to be so gracefully and fully.

Classic manners do wonders in the mind of a woman. To know that you respect her mind, her person as a legitimate, creative, valid human, and to know that you like her ass enough to open the car door for her in a most public setting, will drive her wild with desire for you. It must come from your heart though. She will appreciate your efforts all the more when they appear non-laborious. So guys, practice. Keep trying to show the woman of your desire that you are sincere about showing her a soft side, and simultaneously allowing her to feel safe in your strong arms when needed. All that’s left then is to realize that you are one of the active new men here on this ever-evolving planet. You are accommodating the growth of not just the women around you, but every man as well. Lead!