14 Rules to save Child from Abuses. Urgent

Child abusing are rising at alarming rate but we have to protect this unprotected, innocent and immature teenagers. With recession there is widespread news in form of dating children are being abused through internet, mobile and physical meetings.

 Steps to save children from abuses

 1-     As far as possible restrict children from pornographic cinema and excessive exposure of TV programme. As per a research Children should not watch TV more than 1 hr a day.

2-     Impart Value Based education, stress more on virtues and firm character.

3-     Encourage them to be honest and truthful in disclosing any abuses.

4-     Under the influence of the relatives, matured or immature elder they may be victim. Friends and relative can be abuser if possible make sleeping arrangement with separated bed. In poor families the teenagers sleeping along with other relatives due to constraint of space causes problems.

5-     Parent should  be responsible towards own duties, action and characters.

6-      Parent has to do a lot of sacrifices for the career of children

7-     Hostel can be one of the most vulnerable places of abusing. Students exposed to evil pornographic TV shows, Blue picture, magazines and gossiping become victim of such tactics easily.

8-     Make them understood about true sense of love save them from internet, mobile phone abuses. We need to supervise them by correcting our own behavior.

9-      Cultivate ethics and spirituality. That does not mean to introduce blind faith, but no one can escape from bondage of Karma. One has to face consequence for misdeeds. As per the Gita the lust is sole cause of misery, pain and misfortune throughout the life. Child experience psychological as well as psychological debility due to early age experience of lust.

10-  In Bible it is mentioned even if one sees other with vicious feeling or with lustful eyes is a sin, and for every sin one has to suffer, think about a child who has undergone physical assault and his accumulated suffering for future.

11-  Believe me ignorance is not excuse even if child is unaware of the bad consequence or suffering for his misdeed he develops imbalances in his physiological and psychological process which cause problems, miss happening, suffering with growing age.  It is our duty to make them aware of ethics and harmful outcomes.

12-  Do not take child abusing so lightly, it is a serious issues from child career point of view. It may cause a lot of physical and emotional distort.

13- You protect purity of child; they will automatically prosper in every field. Purity is the mother of peace and prosperity.

14-  I have seen elders due to ignorance in their childhood may be abusing their younger, with age and awareness they realize it is wrong they never do that gain. During the teen age even teen age elders may instigate abuses.

      These 14 rule can save adolescents and teenagers from abuses. Please apply them earnestly with care and lovefor the child.

My parents gave up viewing  movies to protect us from evil exposure and this has helped me like anything ,I had never visited any cinema hall except thrice, I had seen just 40 to 50 movie in TV in last 35 years still experienced the unbearable negative consequences. Since last 15 years I had not seen a single movie or TV programs.

  At the age of 17 I understand the importance of yoga and value based education. Last 19 years I am attending value based classes that is helping me like anything. Though I am a lecturer in Management education I found values are essetial and cat like shield in career to protect from failures and pains.