C.L. Hendricks is a "jill-of-all-trades" and an expert in some. She writes on a variety of subjects for several websites, including InvitingSmiles and Survival Homestead, to name a few.
Children, soccer games, ballet lessons, swimming practice, church, and the list goes on. Run, run, run; come home, go to bed, wake up; run, run, run. Sound familiar?
You are not alone. John is spending the night at a friend’s house, but Kara has nothing to do, so you stay home with Kara. Tomorrow night John is home, but Kara is going to Beth’s house, so you stay home with John. When do parents have time alone?
Many parents keep this hectic schedule, and then when the kids become old enough to drive and are constantly gone, parents wonder what to do with each other. It is at this time they realize how being together can be very nice. Dinners for two, in the ‘adult’ section of the restaurant, WOW! Wondering why those other parents don’t control their kids, and remembering funny episodes of your own children.
Why wait until your children are older? It is very important for couples with young children to make some mommy and daddy time. It will nurture your relationship as a couple and your children will benefit as well. You may say, ‘We have no time, the children come first.’ However, when your children see that their mommy and daddy love each other enough to make time for themselves, they will learn to do this when they get married. Therefore, their marriage will be nurturing and they will be better off by the lesson you have taught them.
Something as simple as going to the gym and working out together will allow time for parents to focus on their own needs. Maybe you need some relaxation from a project at work that is causing stress. This time alone will give you both a chance to unwind from the frenzies of parenting and careers.
It is also important to make some time where work and children are not a part of the conversation. Try a romantic dinner, or a night at the movies. Set up date nights and surprise each other with romantic evenings of dance, dinner, and fun.
Going out can be costly, but there are many ways to find time alone, and it doesn’t cost as much. Swap babysitting nights with friends; you take their kids one night, and they take yours one night (no babysitter fees). Pack a picnic lunch and go to a park (no restaurant bill). Walk around the neighborhood (no gym dues). There are many ways to enjoy yourselves, especially if you find your common interests.
Mommy and Daddy need time together. Your children will not mind, in fact they will appreciate it!
- Related Videos
- Related Articles
- Ask / Related Q&A
Sunsuits - Do My Children Need Them?
By: Cristina Sanders | 16/11/2009My kids all wear sunsuits. They wear sun hats, their sunglasses in the car and I have a big tub of sunscreen by the back door. Here’s why.
Fighting For Child Custody? Read This!
By: Mark Davidson | 16/11/2009Short article detailing child custody rights and how to win a child custody battle.
Keeping Your dignity When Breastfeed Your Baby in Public Using Nursing Shirts
By: Harry Dubois | 16/11/2009There are countless numbers of new mothers who would like to breastfeed their newborn child in public but due to public stigma, are uncomfortable about doing so. Instead they are forced to create schedules with almost military precision for going out to allow themselves time to get back home in a respectable time to feed their baby, before he or she becomes too distressed, which, as you can imagine can sometimes be quite testing
Playing with Stuffed Toys: Is it Good for my Kid?
By: Sarah B. Sharpe | 15/11/2009Most kids enjoy playing with stuffed toys for a wide variety of reasons. Some like them because they are cuddly and adorable while other kids are fascinated by their bright and striking colors. Parents cannot help but feel happy when they see the delight in their child’s face when playing with stuffed toys such as large stuffed animals. However, there have been some questions about the beneficial effects of stuffed toys to children.
Excellent Tips for Buying Stuffed Toys Online
By: Sarah B. Sharpe | 15/11/2009Many decades back, the concept of buying things using the computer would seem rather absurd. Now, online shopping has become such a big part of so many people’s lives and you can buy online almost any product and service you can think of. Even the sweet and cuddly stuffed animals are available in the online market.
Choosing the Right Stuffed Toy for your Child
By: Sarah B. Sharpe | 15/11/2009Almost every kid owns a stuffed toy. Even you probably did, when you were still a child. Now that you have a child of your own, you want your little one to experience the same joy and delight you had from having owned these adorable cuddly toys. As you probably know, stuffed toys provide endless opportunities for active and interactive play.
Parenting 101: Playing Time is Bonding Time
By: Sarah B. Sharpe | 15/11/2009Most parents are very busy with work or chores that they hardly have time to spend with their children. Even if they do, it often happens that a parent is already too tired to play or do activities. This diminishes the quality in the time spent with the child and they may end up doing passive activities like watching television or merely sitting on the couch. However, it is important to remember that bonding time is crucial for the overall development of the child.
Taking Care of your Kid’s Beloved Toys
By: Sarah B. Sharpe | 15/11/2009Toys are valuable to your kids. In fact, his toy collection may be his most valued possession at this time. For this reason, it is important to ensure that you take proper care of these things. Aside from this, you spent money and effort looking for the most durable and educational toys in the market so you would want these toys to last a long time. Fortunately, taking care of your kid’s toys is not that difficult.
Application Process to Obtain a U.S. Green Card
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelFollowing a few simple guidelines can make for an easy process when applying for a U.S. Green Card. A green card can be applied for through the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services Office also known as USCIS.
Steps to Renew a U.S. Green Card
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelA U.S. Green Card is also known as a Permanent Resident Card. The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) is the government agency that issues and renews green cards.
How to Get a Visa to Ireland before Heading for the Emerald Isle
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelGetting a visa to Ireland is easy if you are a citizen of a European Union country. For those who are not, the application is available online. The application is quite lengthy and requires information on you, your travel plans, and your financial stability.
You May Need a Visa to Travel to Malaysia
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelBefore you sit down to fill out an application for a Malaysian Visa, you should check the Malaysian Immigration website. Very few foreign visitors need a visa to visit Malaysia.
The No-Headache Way to Get an Expedited Passport
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelToday anyone can apply for an expedited passport. Anyone wishing to speed up the application process can use the State Departments Expedition service or hire an agency to assist them.
The Easiest Way to Get Same Day Passports
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelIf you are looking to get a same day passport, you might want to hire a company that specializes in rush passports. For a fee, these companies will push your passport application through in 24 hours.
What You Need to Know About USA Passport Requirements
By: C.L. Hendricks | 02/11/2009 | TravelHaving the USA passport requirements in hand when you arrive at your interview will reduce the time necessary to qualify for a passport. While the list may seem long, you probably already have most of the needed documents.