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Does he really get "blue balls"?
By: sammyj | 05-06-2008
I have a kind of embarrassing question. I have a boyfriend who I am trying to take it really slow with. Sometimes when we are fooling around he tells me that he gets "blue balls" since he doesn't have a release. Does this really exist or is he just making up an excuse for us to go further?

Gaining Trust
By: Hurtful | 04-06-2008
How do I gain the guy I am in love with trust back after I lied multiple times? How do I show him that I will never do it again?

I have to make a decision. A straight-laced, over ...
By: petunyabug | 03-06-2008
I have to make a decision. A straight-laced, over protective (of his kids), loving man that we don't agree on child discipline or freedoms, or a fun man who we agree on a lot more stuff, children, life, work, etc. (I am a girl that loves to have fun, house work will still be there when I get back.) The problem is, I am already engaged to the first man. I went out with the 2nd a while back and he just quit calling or having any communication. Theres your answer you say. BUT! The first man has kissed, tongue down her throat, his ex wife since he and I have been together. Man 2 never cheated on his wife. Man 1 is a very good man and I hate to hurt him, but my heart is with #2!!! #2 is willing to relocate so we can live closer as he is an hour and a half away. Man 1 won't let me have a dog and is allergic to my cat. Man 2 loves dogs and cats and all. How do I do this? What do I do? Someone PLEASE point me in a good direction. There has to be someone who has been through this.

What is friendship?
By: pradeepbaloni | 03-06-2008
what is friendship?

Young woman...broken heart for me!!
By: JustinTime21 | 02-06-2008
I read my last question after I posted it and it did not read right!!  Here it goes.  I am 28 years old.  I have a 4 year old and a 9 month old both from different mothers.  The most recent I have been with for over 3 years and we became engaged at the end of 2006.  I loved her so much but there were some things that I put up with through it all due to her immaturity.  Even before the baby was born we had some conflict with my current daughter.  She took a stance of she is not my responsibility.  I tried to explain to her that I was a package deal and she did not care.  She looked at my daughter as an annoyance instead of a joy...dont get me wrong kids are hard but if you get involved with someone who has children they are then your responsibility too.  After our baby girl was born we had problems agreeing on what to do...schedules, letting her cry..etc...she told me that she was going to do whatever she wanted to and wouldnt listen to anybody as her FRIEND told her that everyone will tell you what to do but your the mom.  Arent I the dad??  I dont feel I should be put in the category of everyone when we are engaged to be married.  Anyhow the love started to get lost.  No passion..rear sexual contact.  I found myself begging for her attention.  We had no alone time...and her communication skills are very lacking.  I could tell she was not happy but when i asked her she was always fine.  Just recently we she finally listened and started putting her in the crib ( for the first time in 9 months) and a window opened up for us to have some alone time.  Two weekends in a row she went out.  The first weekend she went out and did not come home until 4 in the morning...ignored all my phone calls... and she is still breastfeeding (not on a bottle yet) drunk.  Big problem.  She appologized as she knew it was wrong but she was not done yet.  The very next weekend she had plans to help one of our friends cook for a bbq the next day.  I was once again home alone with the kids.  She told me that she would not be home until 1am.  I thought this was funny.  What can you cook until 1am.  She claimed they had a lot of things to do.  I told her like I had a million time that I feel distant and miss her.  "I really miss you and want to spend some time with you."  She could tell I was down in the dumps reaching out for her touch, her love, her kiss...she left anyway.  Come to find out she was not where she said she was going to be.  She ignored my calls again and lied to me about where she was.  I could not take it anymore.  By the time she got home I had all of her clothes bagged up.  She moved back in with her mom the next day.  I feel horrible now. Alone with that horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach.  She tells me that she didnt do anything wrong and I am in the wrong for kicking her out.  I try to tell her how I feel and why but it seems as if she doesnt care.  Almost looking for a way out and I gave it to her.  Did I do anything wrong?  Do I approach her?  Do I wait for her to realize what she had?  Help me out with some good insight!

I am 20yrs old my boyfriend is 33. he has a 11yr ...
By: diana | 02-06-2008
i am 20yrs old my boyfriend is 33. he has a 11yr old daughter. we have been dating for 1yr. no one knows we are dating except my close friends. not even his daughter knows. by the way things are i dont feel anyone is going to know any time soon. i myself am not ready for no one to know but i feel like we are getting no where. i want to get marry have kids. not now of course. i feel like my wishes might not come true. even if we do get together i dont think he is into getting marry. if he didnt when he had a daughter with his ex who were a couple of yrs together why is he now with me. i love him but i have dreams and i only live once so i wanna make them come true.

Oil wells
By: Mike | 01-06-2008
, DWhat does date off mean in regards to an oil well that is not yet producing. Does the term have more than one meaning

From lemons to poison
By: Chase | 01-06-2008
from friends to bf gf to friends with benifits to i dont knw what. ive been through every stage with this grl and i think that because of this is y i feel so deeply attached to her. yes i do this this is love, im only a senior in highschool but im just so damn confused. we were friends, she was cute, i asked her out, dated for 3 years, broke up because she was attraced to other guys which would have been fine if she didnt flirt with them so often. we realized that we needed each other (or atleast i did) and became friends with benifits hoping to get our "jollies" out over the summer and go back out in september. but just today she told me she was going to go out with someone else (we said hook-ups were fine but if one dated the other that we would never go back out) i reminded her of that and she didnt seem to really care. im so confused because it was only two days ago that we came up with the origanal plan.

Ready to Date
By: scurlyq1994 | 31-05-2008
What is your advice for dating in high school? I haven't really tried it yet and I'm curious to hear your tips.

Transfer of my large inheritance from a revocable trust, to a irrevocable trust.
By: mylo | 30-05-2008
Can a trustee transfer my large inheritance (after estate taxes have been paid) from a revocable trust to a irrevocable trust of which I am the beneficiary of? Would there be any gift tax, etc. if this were done?

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