5 Signals That a Guy Likes You

Wouldn't it be nice to know exactly what is going on in his mind? It would be great to hook up a special machine to his brain that could just download his thoughts and feelings about you and let you read exactly what is going on in there. Of course, we are many, many years away from that kind of technology (and, I can just hear the right-to-privacy folks screaming bloody murder!).

Okay, back to reality: how can you figure out what he is really thinking and feeling about you? Behavioral psychologists tell us that you can read volumes of information about his true motivations and feelings by paying attention to the verbal and non-verbal signals and gives you.

Here are 5 signals that a guy likes you:

1. He goes out of his way to have physical contact with you

A man on the prowl is a man who will do anything to be close to you. A guy who likes you will try to be around you whenever he can. He will do this in at least two ways: a. try to arrange his schedule in order to spend more time in your presence; b. when he is in your presence, his next step will be to get as physically close to you as he can, as often as he can. This can culminate (seemingly innocently, of course) in a series of light brushes, touches, and even gentle pokes or jabs. Make no mistake: all of this physical activity is a sign that he is throwing heavy love vibes your way big time.

2. He talks to you whenever he has the chance

A guy in love is a talkative guy. As you may know, studies show that men speak far fewer words during their lifetimes than do women. Most guys just like to talk less than do most women - it is a scientific fact. However, a guy who likes you will do everything he can to communicate with you as often as possible. If the guy you like is doing lots of talking with you, do not take it as a sign of business as usual: more words mean more feelings of like toward you.

3. He kids with you often

One of the sure-fire things a man will do to show he likes you is to kid with you. Jokes, funny stories, gags, silly songs - all of these are strong signs that he has got a crush in a big way. So, if you notice him pulling out the humor (no matter how silly it may be), take this as a signal that a guy likes you; then, send the love vibes back his way.

4. He compliments you on your looks

Any comments that your guys makes about your looks should be seen as a very positive sign. Even comments of an overtly sexual nature (as long as they are tasteful and respectful) are a good sign that he thinks you are all that.

5. He sometimes acts friendly and at other times ignores you

If your flirtation with this guy has been going on for a long while, he may be getting a bit frustrated at the lack of progress thus far. One signal that he may give you that indicates this pent-up sexual frustration is frequent changes in his behavior. He may give you lots of attention one day, acting very friendly - and then completely ignore you the next day. Rest assured, he is probably not playing mind games with you; he just likes you and wants things to go to the next phase. So, take a bold step forward and make it happen with him.

If you are getting the strong love signals from him, don't you think it time to take things to the next level? Educate yourself on what works and get started on your love adventure!