A Simple Letter to Win Back Your Ex

Any kind of split or breakup of a relationship can be very hard to deal with, especially when all you want to do is win back your ex. How can you begin to make progress in patching your relationship back together especially when your ex doesn't even miss you?

Or quite simply you can use the technique known as a 'second chance' letter. If you have made a lot of mistakes this letter can help you prepare those. If you need your ex to start missing you this letter will have the desired effect.

If your ex knows that they can have you back with a click of their fingers, then they are never going to miss you - you do not miss something you can have in an instant. You miss things you can't have or have to wait a long time to get.

If your ex knows they cannot get you or may never have you again, you've instantly created a psychological' vacuum' inside their mind letting them know of this loss. They will begin to miss you and you have laid down the foundations to begin rebuilding you lost love.

You can create this vacuum with a hand written letter.

The very fact that this is hand written is key to its success. We are so used to text messages, e-mails and printed letters that when we hand write a note it stands out so much that it will instantly get read.

What does the latter need to say?

It has to let your ex know that you are completely okay with the breakup and you are glad they made the right choice - even though you are not. This releases your ex and allows them mind to release you as the puppet on a string that they can have any time they like.

You have made them believe that you are free, doing well and have found a new lease of life. This is where they will begin to miss you.

Can you see that if you want to win back your ex this one simple handwritten letter is an incredibly effective tool to tip the balance in your favour.