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Are You Repelling Men and Not Being Aware of It?

When you look around you, does it seem that everyone you know is happily and completely satisfied with how their love lives are going? Is everyone around you happy with their relationships, but not you? It's probably either you don't have a boyfriend right now, or if you do, he doesn't exactly know how to handle your relationship.

Ask any woman and she'll tell you that falling in love and being loved by a man who isn't only witty, intelligent and fun to be with, but also somebody who knows how to handle a relationship as well, is probably all they ask for in a relationship. The sad thing is that being witty, intelligent and fun to be with are easy qualities to find in a man but finding somebody who knows how to handle a relationship well is another story. The truth is, a lot of men don't have any idea at all about handling relationships. And because of this, many women have to wait until he gets his act together.

If this is a familiar scenario, then you should know that there are two paths to take. One, you can patiently wait for a man who knows how to handle a relationship well to walk into your life. If you choose this path, there's a big possibility that you're gonna be waiting for a long time. Conversely, you can tell yourself that having a man in your life would just complicate things, and that you don't really need that kind of stress. But in all honesty, you know that there's a void in your life that only a good man can fill.

If you don't agree with the first path, you may opt for the second. It's a lot tougher than the first, since it involves taking control of your life.

Stop moping and start steering your relationship towards a brighter tomorrow. So if your current boyfriend is mature not enough now, then you can take the lead and start encouraging him to be. Remember though, that encouraging him doesn't mean you have to nag him to death - doing so would just drive him away.

Think about it. Which of these two women would be more attractive to a man?

Woman #1 isn't sure of herself and just sits idly, waiting for "Mr. Right" to find her, while Woman #2 has control over everything in her life. Men would obviously go for Woman #2, because she knows how to have fun, and she knows what she wants and how to get it. A man will do everything that he can to measure up to someone like Woman #2.

Watch your emotions, because this will dictate how your relationship would go. Being fearful and uncertain will definitely make your boyfriend feel that there's a lot of negativity in you. If he feels this, then you can be almost sure that he'd look elsewhere for a girlfriend. So what do you do? Be a person who is truly warm and affectionate. Don't even think about faking it because he'll surely know. By being sure of yourself and about what you want in life, you can expect that he'd start seeing you in a different light and would want to be somebody that's worthy of your affection.

As he does this, you can now sit back and relax and watch him take the relationship to a more mature level. Keep your eyes on the positive things that are unfolding before you and you're sure that you'll be a magnet of more good things that will come into your love life.

Aaron Adams
Stop your breakup or divorce now. Aaron Adams specialises in relationship matters for women. Visit http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com for more relationship advice.
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