BE THE WOMAN WHO MEN WANT: A Q&A With The Relationship Doctor - Understanding the differences between men and women - How To Attract a Man

"How can I be the kind of woman that men really are looking for?"

Nearly all female clients asks me at some point, "WHAT DO MEN WANT?"

Most women work hard at trying to be the type of woman that their man. What men want and what they think they want are often two different things. A woman who puts her heart first and will always be more attractive than those are pleasers. Will a man get angry at times? Absolutely, but she instantly gains respect in his eyes and she becomes someone he can trust.

>> "Men want someone who puts her heart before their man. While most women fear this will lead to being labeled a 'witch' or worse, done properly it is the ultimate aphrodisiac." Bob Grant, author of "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave."

Bob Grant, L.P.C. is widely recognized as a leading expert on relationship advice. As a professional Coach for over 16 years, he has helped hundreds of clients in goal achievement. In addition to his hit book, "The Woman Men Adore...And Never Want To Leave." Bob has also been a frequent quest on the radio program, "Marriage and Family Today," in Atlanta, Ga.

In His latest work, "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave." Bob shows that when a woman learns to trust her heart, her natural ability to attract the man of her dreams is already in existence. It isn't something that she has to discover.

His approach focuses on each person's God given dreams and determines what they are or are not doing that is inhibiting the fulfillment of those desires.

With realistic encouragement and custom designed strategies, every client is equipped to achieve and repeat their successes...

Kathleen - Q. "You have said that it begins with understanding the differences between men and women."

Bob - A. "That men and women think differently is no great insight. I explain in The Woman the Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave that men by their nature are completive and do not want to compete with the woman of their choice. When a woman responds to a man in a confrontive style she inevitably causes her partner treat her like a man. What is more effective is to respond to him through her feelings. Once a woman learns that the male mind is by design competitive, she can then use this to her advantage and her partner's."

Q. "What is it that men adore in women?"

A. "Every man knows the meaning of this phrase, 'There's something about her.' While it means different things to different men it nevertheless brings a smile and a nod to every man. That something is a woman who not only likes herself, but also is at ease around men. When a woman is comfortable around a man it gives him the impression that she knows a secret worth pursuing. It causes her to appear to be somewhat of a challenge, which appeals to a basic human need, namely we long for what we don't think we can get and discard what comes easy.

"Every man longs for a woman who is self confident and yet vulnerable enough to be engaging with a man in conversation. Any woman that acts at ease around men will have an active social life or a devoted husband. "

Q. "You have said that husbands need to be trained?"

A. "Yes. One of the most misunderstood principles between husbands and wives is that of equality. Yes -- they both have the same values, but they derive them from different areas. Men really don't mind their wives influencing them, but what they hate is to be nagged in the process. Every man hopes his wife will somehow know how to influence him in a way that is non-threatening.

"Rather than consistently arguing, women must discover the power they already possess by responding to a man through her feelings. Sometimes men respond favorably while other times they become angrier. Regardless, when a woman persists she is destined to win for the simple reason that men cannot compete with a woman's feelings. This is why men prefer the intensity of battle to the exploration of their feelings. The end result is a husband who has been trained to respond to his wife's feelings..."

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