That is the question.
Is he just a real sex addict or is his wife withholding from him? If she knew he was a sex addict, what could she have done? She could have enrolled him in to therapy, she could have left him. Did she know or was she totally blind about his escapades?
I am sorry, but I believe any woman would have an inclination that things were just not right in the relationship. I cannot believe that she had no clue. Did she ever confront him? These are questions that we do not know, yet?
What I do want you to think about is: would you want this to happen to you. Are you willing to take the chance of having your Partner/husband/lover/SO do this sort of thing to you?
IT COULD.
Right now ask yourself. Are you doing everything you can to keep your man in your bed? Are you satisfying him, as well as you can? Are you giving him what he needs on as much as a regular basis as you can?
I know you are tired, the kids, the job, and the house. All time consuming stressful conditions in your life. I realize that. When was the last time you actually spent even one hour together? Meaning no kids, no computer, no TV. Just you two enjoying one another completely?
Do you need that? Would you enjoy that time together? Guess what he would too!
I know scheduled sex seems so clinical. But it is needed. There are 168 hours in a week. Can you find 1 hour in that time per week to give each other what you both need? I think if you try just a bit you can.
That may be the differnece between saving your relationship and keeping connected. One hour per week!…
What do you think?
Please comment
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