Don not break friendship
It is your first duty and it is your first requirement that you should development friendship with others and once you are successful in establishing friendship with a person, then you must keep this friendship and it should lost till the last day of your life. Friendship once established is the last one and we may make more friends or we may not be able to make further friends, that will not cause us any loss, but once we break friendship which had been established by us, we shall be the loser because a friend when become our enemy, he causes us more losses and we are not in a position to save ourselves from this newly created enemy.
We must note that it is the best occasion in our life when a person comes near to us and we become friends. Friendship has not been completely defined, but it is on record that friendship is marriage of two minds. It is created by God Himself when He brings the other person near to us and we develop friendship. some people in India believe that friends are the person who had been attached to us in the previous life and that is the reason they have again come near to us and they are continuing that friendship which we had been having in the previous life. These people also tell that our enemies are those who were not having good relations with us and we had done something wrong with them and they have taken birth once again and they shall try to damage us and take their revenge in this life. These beliefs are not totally wrong because when we meet a person and immediately we want to create friendship with him, it clearly means that our inner soul has recognized that fellow and we also start loving that fellow.
We need friends because this world is full of people and all this is a crowd for us. We are identifying only those people who are our relations, our neighbours, our nears and dears and our friends. Therefore, we must keep in our mind that we shall keep good relations who are known to us, who are identified by us and who are our relations and once we have established friendship with a person, that should be the happiest occasion in our life and we must be thankful to God who has brought this man near to us and we had the occasion to meet him and see that he is the same person who had been with us and had been our friend, our relation or a person with who we had done something good. When we hate a person, it clearly means that this is the person who was our enemy in the last such life and he has come here to take revenge from us and he shall lose no opportunity and shall cause us damages.
In spite of the fact that some one has come here to take revenge from us, but we should try to avoid this revenge and we must try to create friendship with this fellow so that he may forget the opportunity of taking revenge from us and let this time go on and we should pass of the revenge-taking opportunity for another birth. This is possible and if we do this adjournment system, a time shall come when that soul shall forget to take revenge from us.
We must believe in the concept of friendship and we must avoid enmity because enmity is more dangerous for us and we shall face losses when we have got more enemies. You may be having one thousand friends, but you must know that this number upto one thousand may not give us a single benefit, but even one enemy shall cause us losses which we shall not be able to correct even during the whole remaining part of our life.
Therefore, we must try to have friends and then we must keep those friendships for the remaining part of our life.
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Relationships 
| Posted: 30-03-2008 | Comments: 
