Everything Love - The art of finding the right guy or girl: Part 1 Where to find them

You've waited all your life for this moment. Your dreams and hopes since you were a child come to mind today as you take the first step forward into the wonderful 'the leap of love'! Your mind fills up with the images of smiles, laughter, joy and contentment. What a beautiful day! The day you embrace love and find your lover!

Love is what we were all born to give and experience. It is an innate, instinctual reflex that possesses the best of us and the worst. It is the one defining characteristic that is looked at to determine if a man or woman has been fulfilled in life, successful in every sense of the word. Today, love stands unchanged, yet the people around us seem to experience it less and less. In fact, some of you who read my opening lines into this article did so with a snicker and sarcastic grin! Why? Because you have seen and tasted the flipside of 'love' and have resigned yourself to that image of love. One of constant abuse, dissatisfaction, threats and hurt. You have tasted what people were NOT meant to taste, but only because - i believe - you did not take much care to study affairs of the heart before you got into the leap of love.

Finding the right person in love is key! It is EVERYTHING! This is simply because love dwells in another individual. And because love dwells in another being, without that being, there would be no love for you, or, if that being chooses not to be the possesser of love for you, then you do not receive any love and instead receive it's opposites. Are you now seeing why the partner you choose is so important?

Another reason why you should learn how to choose the right partner is because love is an affair of the heart, and the heart can get you tangled with the WRONG person. Once this process is set in motion, you find yourself in a perpetual blockbuster horror film without an exit door. The posters looked attractive and promised you a thrilling time but once the popcorn finished your hands stood stuck on your eyes waiting for the moment the movie ends and so that the exit doors would burst open...but they never do, and all this time you can only keep telling yourself the posters looked so attractive! I might have just metaphorically described the life a growing number of couples in the world today, except that they DO have an exit strategy: divorce, which, in my opinion is no strategy at all!

If your idea of love is to end up being beaten, abused, harassed or in a divorce, you can stop reading now because my article and resources are simply NOT FOR YOU! However, if experiencing the wonders of Everything love is your desire, read on for some important tips that will get you on the right track.

Where DO you find people capable of accepting your love and giving you love in return over the long term? Everywhere! BUT, the tricky part is...that they MAY not be where YOU are!. This last statement is so oh-so-important that i can't stress it enough! Your true love may be geographically near you, but not SOCIALLY!!!

People oftentimes end up with other people of their social circles. This isn't rocket science, it's just plain fact. So take a good look at your friends and LOVED ones (i stress 'love' because not all people love their families, so i mean those who you DO care about.) Take a good look at them because that's what is on the market and is very likely what you are going to end up with. If your friends generally are not known to be the most faithful bunch, guess what, you are very likely going to end up with a cheater. That's life! If your friends have a history of broken relationships, it would be possible for you to find love that isn't that way, but it is far less likely!

I don't mean that you will fall in love with a friend, but that you will very likely fall in love with a man or woman with similar traits that your friends bear. It is true that there are many fish in the sea, but you and i have only ONE line and tackle, therefore, WHERE we fish will be the deciding factor to what fish we are going to catch. Don't gamble with your love life, because Everything Love is meant to be wonderful not risky!

In part 2 of this series i will show you simple steps of HOW to find the right partner.

I wish true love to you! Till then!