Joe Bisley writes articles about human relationship problems.
Your relationship has just been going through a particularly bad patch. You are not just asking “How can I save our relationship?” You are also asking if it is even possible.
The first thing you have to do is come to an honest decision as to whether your relationship should be saved. You can’t always hang on to things that really you should let go. Holding on out of fear of finding yourself on your own is not a justifiable reason for trying to keep the relationship alive.
When you decide that is worth a try these few tips may point you in the right direction and make matters better for both of you.
One reason why relationships often get onto trouble is that only one of the two of you is really making some effort to keep it going. If this is you, you have to realize that you cannot do it all on your own as the physical and emotional strain is too much for you. Your partner has to take an equal responsibility and make his contribution if you are both to succeed. Your relationship is never going to work if you cannot share the effort of making it work.
So if you screwed things up, start by admitting your responsibility and apologizing for the pain you have caused your partner. Any resentment you share can be significantly reduced when you accept responsibility for what you have done. Your apology, to the one who loves you and is looking for things to work more smoothly, will certainly be well received.
Accepting responsibility for your actions will help to answer the question "how can I save our relationship?" The troubles have taken some time to accumulate and so they will not disappear overnight. When you both work on solving your problems together, you can return to loving and get back to the loving and fulfilling relationship that you both are seeking.
Joe Bisley,
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