Publisher and author Billy Baker has expertise with dating and relationship consulting and has supplied the following article for your reference on how to get a guy to commit.
Are you tired of waiting for that Harry Winston or Tacori engagement ring? (Or any kind of ring for that matter?) How many Valentine's, birthdays, and anniversaries have you spent hoping that this will be the night that he pops the question? Is he ever going to marry you? How do you get a man to marry you?
Consider his personality style before you begin laying out your strategy and plans. While there are various kinds of slack arsed boyfriends who have yet to pop the question we are only going to cover a couple here. Is your man one of these?
* The Career Man. This guy has a career plan in place. He may have a five year plan and his promotions planned as well. While this guy is focusing on his career, nothing else will be distracting him. Do you know how many more years he has before he feels secure enough to slow down and contemplate matrimony and the white picket fence? The time frame may not be convenient for you.
If you have plenty of years left you may be happy to wait. If you are in a rush and this guy is nowhere near the top of the corporate ladder you may have to look elsewhere for your rock. You may well be in this guy's plans for down the track. Ask him tactfully where his plans for the future lie and if you're included. No point supporting him through every career crisis if he is not planning on rewarding you at the end.
* Damaged Goods. Is his last girl still an issue in his mind. There may or not be a whole string of nasty relationships in the past. The question of trust can be a matter of years (so we're told)? This guy may be so mistrustful of females that he will never want to commit to anyone ever again. If you have given it your best shot, you can either wait a bit longer or tell him you don't want to wait forever. Be ware of the guy who fobs you off for years with answers like "I am still not ready". If his healing is taking longer than the previous relationship lasted there is something wrong.
There are endless ways to get a man to marry you. If your boyfriend's personality type was not one of the above, then you will need to do a little research. In the end it's worth it.
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