How to Get My Ex Back - Find Out Now

Attraction is a massive part of any relationship, I mean, if you think about it attraction is basically what bring two people together in the first place.

If one person is not attracted to another, then it's extremely unlikely that they will get into a relationship together and if they were to, it's unlikely that it would last a long time.

If you want to get back together with your ex, then you need to revive the attraction they had for you in the past.

Note - Attraction is NOT simply physical, it is also mental and this is very important to realise.

Attraction can involve a number of things such as humour, personality, virtues, physical beauty, characteristics.

The most obvious one would of course be physical beauty and that's the one I'm going to tell you about now.

When you see your ex after the break up, it's best to look good, that seems pretty obvious, however, it is sometimes overlooked as some people think it's not as important as other things.

Let me tell you something, if someone is not physically attracted to you, then it gives you a BIG disadvantage.

What's the first thing you notice when you see someone you are attracted to?

Is it their personality, is it their attitude towards their work?

No, it's their physical beauty, that's the first thing you see.

Do you think men would look at adult magazines if they were filled with ugly women with great personalities?

Of course they wouldn't, it's the physical beauty that draws them in first.

So, the most basic tip I can give you about attraction and using it to get your ex back is to simply try to look your best.

That's the first thing to think about.

After that comes the other aspects of attraction, now, as you have already been in a relationship with this person, you should already know what they find attractive.

Did they like your sense of humour, did they like your attitude to life, whatever they found attractive in you, is probably what they will still find attractive in you.

You may think this is the same as the section on reminding your ex about your good points but it isn't, that section was about positioning yourself as the good "catch", letting them know why they would be lucky to be with you, sort of like a points system, for all your good qualities, you get a point and the more points you have, the better catch you are.

This is different, this is about using those points and using your position to make them WANT to be with you, make them attracted to you and make them want to be back in a relationship with you.

Attraction is key to relationships, if one is not attracted to the other, then it's likely not going to work.

If you can revive the attraction your ex had for you, then you stand a much better chance of getting them back, a much better chance.