Love: Do you know if it's true love or not

They say that love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of  strong affection and attachment and some might say that love is a strange thing that can be the most amazing feeling in the world or it can hurt.

Although, there are many different ways to define love, even if it means only loving yourself because love also means that you trust that person to the fullest and would do anything for them and knowing they are going to be with you through thick and thin and isn't afraid to be seen with you, let alone hold your hand and make sure that they treat you right.

Now, no amount of money can buy love, let alone happiness because love is having to count on your mate or significant other for whatever reason and your mate is responsive and is at your beck and call at all times and make sure that the promises they make always follow through.

Love means being there for your significant other and your significant other is supposed to give you full support at whatever you do, whether it's a stupid decision that they're making without you being pessimistic about things.

Remember: Your mate is counting on you to be on their side all the way.

For instance: If your mate says that they want to go out and get a job and it's not that much of a great job and the pay is lousy, and they get hired and comes back to you and say that this is the job that they have chosen even if it doesn't really make ends meet then you're supposed to support them regardless to what or go all out of your way to help them get something better so that they will be able to make ends meet, so therefore, feeding their ego would be best and making sure that they make the right decision without being judgemental and listening to them at all times.

When there's love involoved, you should never give any ulitmatums and taking care of each other till death do you part which is a very strong and solid love whether you're married to each other or not and loving each other even though things may be hard or even if things get complicated.

Love is really how you make it and in order for you to express love, you have to show love and it's pretty much the way it has to be and bringing them down to your level and seeing how you want to be loved while dealing with a lot of imperfections but alot of patience and being able to bond with one another, but love really has to be unconditional and if it's not unconditional, there's an agenda to not have that genuine love.

Now how can you tell that you have true love in your relationship or your marriage?

When your mate cooks for you, takes care of you healthwise and appearance wise and really cares about you and most of all, is concerned about what, when, where, and everything that you're doing.

With love itself, it is when you can be yourself around that person without any judgement and when you're with each other for so long, you can still go out and enjoy each other and when you look forward to basically seeing that person, and at the end of the day, you start to think about them non stop and you realize that you really miss them and when you wake up next to each other and when you end up going about your business, you know that you have a great relationship if you're really looking foward to seeing them again, even if it's to go back and argue.

With love, when you do something that you're not supposed to do, you could actually see your partner sittiing on your shoulder and that becomes like a warning to you and seeing that person standing over your shoulder with a fork pick telling you to correct yourself and that makes you basically want to walk a straight line.

Now how could you tell when someone is your one true love, let alone the one for you?

When you can look each other in the eye and speak aout things that you wouldn't normally talk to other people about, so in other words: Keeping confidences, or speaking your mind and you always end up getting a smile and no matter what the subject and keeping a constant communication with one another with a lot of trust.

I'm a person that truly believes in love and making things work out for better or for worse which is no doubt about that.

Ladies and Gentlemen, do you believe that love is for you?

Well if you don't, then there's definitely hope in finding love, but also know this; don't look for love, it will never work out, but once you stop looking for love, then out of nowhere, the best love will come and find you. You just have to understand that patience is a virtue when it comes to finding love because you don't want to end up in a crazy love triangle because relationships are hard enough, so when you're dealing with love, you have to do things to make it work out no matter how bad things get, so just be happy and you should always express one's love to one another without all of the fuss and hassel and liking someone for them and not for what they can give you or what they can provide for you.

In other words: Not being with a person for all of the wrong reasons, but for the right reasons which spells true love.

Newsflash: Never play any games with each other's hearts by doing something each of you will later regret, let alone end up resenting each other by doing spiteful things, because love can be a crazy thing so don't break each others hearts cause a broken heart can kill you faster than a bullet.

Now ladies and gentlemen, don't be a fool when it comes to love and don't do anything to capture the attention of your partner just because you want attention  or is emotionally needy, or have anyone disregard your feelings because in all actuality, real love is not supposed to be that way because you'll end up driving each other and yourself crazy at the same time.

Make the right decision when  it comes to love and don't put a wall in front of you when you're in a relationship cause communicaton is key.

I asked a friend of mine on the subject about love and he mentioned that he feels that love is a whole bunch of nonsense and don't want anything to do with the word love at all for the simple fact that most people love to abuse that word love and say that they love someone but really don't mean it and sometimes the word love ends up being overrated as a cliche' and it should just be about sex with no strings attached which I believe is bogus.

I definitely can feel it when it's true love or when someone truly loves me for me just by their body language itself and when someone says they love me.

For instance: If someone that you've had a relationship with before just disappears from your life and you never hear from them again, then it was never meant to be, but however if they reappear out of nowhere and comes back and shows a powerful declaration of their love, then you have to reconsider because they were meant for you and you two were meant to be together.

So when it comes to love, will you be truly ready for it because real love is something that is not to be taken as a joke because love is a two way street, you just have to be ready and make sure if you're willing to deal with love or not.