The aftermath of a breakup is definitely one of the hardest processes in life to get through, especially if your ex was your "first," as in your first girlfriend or boyfriend. The time it takes to recover may take two weeks to two years. There's no doubt that if you still like them, from time to time, you still think of ways on how to your ex back. Perhaps the following things still affect you.
You go to the library to try and get some studying done and firmly say to yourself, "You know what, my ex isn't important right now... what's important is trying to ace this exam." You're doing well for the first ten minutes, and then the problems start getting harder and more confusing. As you delve deeper, random words, symbols, and numbers start to remind you of your previous girlfriend or boyfriend. You try to shake it off and take your eyes off your textbook, only to see a nice couple holding hands walking pass right in front of you. Now you're mind is completely on your ex. You pack your books, and head back to your apartment.
As you driving home you turn on the radio. You've never really paid attention to music lyrics, now you wonder why every song is either about love, sex, or a breakup. You keep changing the radio station but there's just too much "love" going on. You turn the radio off. You can't even listen to one song of The Beatles anymore. Rock and R&B also don't do much help. Why did Ne-Yo have to sing a song called "So Sick of Love Songs." Even though it was one of your favorite catchy songs, it can't be listened to anymore.
You get home and your friends call you to invite you out for dinner and a movie. You go out to The Cheesecake Factory with them but it's not the same. You feel restricted to talk only about what your friends are talking about, instead of just comfortable talking about anything you want. So for the most part, you politely sit there pretending to know what's going on, but inside something is missing. Of course, you're going to smile as much as you can to make it seem like everything is alright. After all, you don't want to burden the party with your sorrows.
Finally you guys watch the movie. As the movie plays, you miss the feeling of cuddling next your ex and their skin softly touching yours. Usually after the movie you just ramble on about what you liked or disliked, but with your friends you are a little more reserved with your opinions. You thank them for having out with you, and head back home again.
The aftermath of the breakup process definitely hurts but getting back together with your ex isn't completely out of the picture. You can still win you ex back even after a hurtful breakup.
- Related Videos
- Related Articles
- Ask / Related Q&A
- 5 Ways To Get Back At Your Ex And Get Your Ex Back At The Same Time
- Get Your Ex Back- Signs Your Ex Still Loves You
- 5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex - And Get Your Ex Back
- Don'T Get Your Ex Back, Win Your Ex Back
- How Do I Get My Ex Back - Getting My Ex Back Without Making My Situation Worse
- How Do I Get My Ex Back - Get You Ex Back Regardless of Circumstances
- Dealing With Divorce - Keeping Your Ex From Becoming Your Ex
- Will My Ex and I Get Back Together? - Getting Back Your Ex by Knowing Your Ex's Intention




Saturn Journeying Through Libra
By: Meg Sweet | 12/11/2009Timeframe:Oct 30, 2009 - Apr 7, 2010 and July 22, 2010 - Oct 5, 2012 The astrological sign of Saturn will be journeying through the Air sign of Libra during the above timeframes. Astrology has a traditional system of classifying how planets operate within each sign, and Saturn in Libra is...
Orange Burst Bouquet – A Great Way to Show Your Appreciation!
By: Flowers | 12/11/2009It always feels good when you hear a word of appreciation from your loved ones. If you too want give this pleasure to your loved ones, then do it with the Orange Burst Bouquet from OnlineFlowers.com. This flower bouquet made of beautiful orange roses and lovely orange Peruvian lilies will let them know how much you care.
Delight Your Loved Ones with Modern Beauty Floral Arrangements!
By: Flowers | 12/11/2009If you want to do something special for your loved ones, then give them beautiful floral arrangements. To get the best flower bouquet arrangements made of the freshest of flowers in lovely colors, try OnlineFlowers.com. You’ll find adorable flower bouquets that will convey your feelings across beautifully.
Tips to Save the Relationship of Busy Married Couples
By: Joe Koh | 12/11/2009You have a very busy work and home life that makes stressful demands on your time and energy. Your soul mate likewise probably has an intense work and or home life with all of those demands. You feel the need to save your relationship by overcoming marriage intensity as these 3 lives come together in you precious time together.
How to Save Your Relationship After Adultery-The Steps to Make it Right
By: Kelly Hamm | 12/11/2009A relationship is the weakest it's ever likely to be after adultery, but this may not be a bad thing. This sounds like it could be a realization hard to swallow, but the truth is that the time immediately following adultery could very well prove to be a big opportunity...
How To Make Your Partner Stay
By: Tanay Kumar Das | 12/11/2009Before you attempt to bring back a lost mate, you have to understand why people leave and what makes people stay.
Save Your Relationship - 3 Ways For Busy Married Professionals
By: Joe Koh | 12/11/2009You have a very busy work and home life that makes stressful demands on your time and energy. Your soul mate likewise probably has an intense work and or home life with all of those demands. You feel the need to save your relationship by overcoming marriage intensity as these 3 lives come together in you precious time together.
How to Attract Positive Relationships in Your Life
By: Mark Foo | 12/11/2009As we travel through our life's journey, many relationships will come into our lives. Some of them will be wonderful and long lasting; others, unfortunately, may be short term or unhappy. Do you tend to attract more negative relationships than positive? Though we strive to develop good, solid, and happy relationships, it seems we sometimes end up with exactly the opposite. Wouldn't you love to attract more positive relationships? The good news is, you can!
7 Things Not To Do When Getting Back Your Ex
By: Tristan Lee | 05/10/2008 | RelationshipsWe've all been been there - broken up and desperately seeking for an answer to find our way back to our ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend. Sometimes, however, instead of doing the "right things", we end up doing things that we can't help, which ends up decreasing our chances of...
How To Win Your Ex Back Depending On Your Personality
By: Tristan Lee | 02/10/2008 | RelationshipsUsually people fall under these four type of personalities, and depending on which one you fit under, it might have caused your girlfriend or boyfriend break up with you... You can still get your ex back, however first try look back into your relationship and think what kind of personality...
15 Needed Questions To Ask Yourself Before Pursuing Your Ex
By: Tristan Lee | 25/09/2008 | RelationshipsEven after you guys broke up, do you ever think of getting back with your ex? It may be a sensitive question and you probably do think about from time to time. But when that question comes to you mind, sometimes you try to avoid it by thinking about something...
How To Get Your Ex Back - An Effective 5 Step Outline
By: Tristan Lee | 25/09/2008 | RelationshipsA lot of people do "random things" when their boyfriend or girlfriend break up with them. Then there's always people giving vague advice that may leave you confused and angry. To get your ex back, realize that it will take time so don't expect it to be a...
Signs Of A Bad Relationship!
By: Tristan Lee | 23/09/2008 | RelationshipsWhen you were in a relationship, sometimes you could just feel that something wasn't going right... Maybe you started to panic, or maybe you started to lose hope. You didn't want to be at that stage where you were thinking about how to win back an ex... Did you have...
The Aftermath Of A Breakup
By: Tristan Lee | 21/09/2008 | RelationshipsThe aftermath of a breakup is definitely one of the hardest processes in life to get through, especially if your ex was your "first," as in your first girlfriend or boyfriend. The time it takes to recover may take two weeks to two years. There's no doubt that...
Your Breaking Up Process
By: Tristan Lee | 21/09/2008 | RelationshipsWhen you broke up, the last thing you were probably thinking was getting back with your ex and instead, thinking about how bad the break up process was. Most of the times, everyone hates the break up process. It definitely ranks up there as one of the worst things someone...