In the movie “Hitch,” Will Smith, dating guru, states: “Any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. He just needs the right broom.” That’s the same outlook real-life Date Mentor Brad Finsilver encourages his clients to have. As a professional dating and relationships coach, Brad Finsilver offers men dating advice and training on how to successfully approach women and begin a relationship, thereby giving them a broom.
One piece of advice The Date Mentor encourages all of his clients to remember is: “You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.” This is especially true to the world of dating, whether you are trying to meet someone online or in-person. If she doesn’t like your shoes or thinks you haven’t spent enough time with a bar of soap, you can forget about getting her phone number.
Dating is like a full-scale marketing campaign, and Brad Finsilver reminds his clients that the product they are trying to sell is themselves, which is why The Date Mentor offers Image Consulting. Clients work directly with Brad to enhance their image and become more appealing to women. However, the goal is never to change a man’s personality. Brad simply offers advice that increases his clients’ awareness of the personality and style traits women commonly look for. Then they work together to convey an image that incorporates these “style points” while still being true to oneself.
In addition to talking about your physical appearance and the clothes you wear, during an Image Consulting session with the Date Mentor, you and Brad will discuss how your body language can reinforce or destroy how you are perceived. Only 7 percent of what a person communicates is attributed to the words he or she says. Everything else is conveyed through body language or tone of voice. Therefore, it’s essential to be conscious of your entire body when approaching a woman.
Once a man completes an image consultation with Brad Finsilver, his level of self-esteem increases dramatically. A confident, self-assured man walking into a room can make any girl turn her head, which is why men should schedule an Image Consultation with The Date Mentor and follow his dating advice. When you become the best version of yourself, you have the broom you need to sweep any woman off her feet.
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