As a decorated 10 year US Air Force veteran with training from all around the world in Jiujitsu, I want to help. I have taken all my years of training and distilled only what really works and created a system of simple yet effective techniques that anyone can learn. My passion is to help men, women and children learn these simple techniques, thereby making you more prepared if an attack should occur. Xavier Smith Founder, Speaker, Author, Entrepreneur http://XcellentSolutions.vpweb.com http://GotMyDefenseGear.com
Whether you are comfortable with someone you have know for a while, or someone comes to visit you at your workplace because they are trying to get to know you better, you must stay aware! Remember this, as comfort level goes up, awareness goes down. We can not let that be the case folks!
The first secret to protecting yourself is to be an inconvenient target to an attacker. Of course, this means exercising street smarts, a subject we will cover soon. But sometimes street smarts are not enough. Sometimes, like it or not, you have no choice but to protect yourself. In such a situation, you must become an inconvenient target. Attackers look for easy prey. You want to be a challenge. Therefore, if somebody approaches you in a way that seems strange, you MUST be prepared to make a scene and to shock and distract your attacker. Making a scene is not hard. If someone is attacking you, you need to react quickly. You have no time to worry about how you look or whether you are making a fool out of yourself. You must be ready to scream, scratch, bite, kick, spit, and do whatever else is required to make a scene. So, when someone approaches you and seems likely to attack: 1. Take a step back and put your hands up, palms out (in the "Stop" position). This is a non-aggressive but effective defensive position.
2. Yell "Stop!" and keep yelling as long as it takes to get attention. Kids should be trained to yell a long time, starting with, "Get away from me. I don't know you and you are not my parent. Get the heck away from me...."
3. If the attacker grabs you, shock him with a clap on the ears, scratch in the eyes, poke in the throat, toe/knee in the groin, or anything else you can do to hit them in their vulnerable areas.
4. NEVER stop struggling. It only gets harder as time passes. Keep yelling and fighting and try to get attention. If you get even a split second of time, run as fast as you can to get somewhere safer.
Bottom line: Forget what you have learned about good manners when you are attacked.
This information is too important to keep to yourself. Please absorb this material and pass it on.
- Related Videos
- Related Articles
- Ask / Related Q&A




badr hari k1 fighter
By: Phillip Luna | 04/01/2010Kiawah Island Resort opened on the weekend of May 1, 1976, and a professional tennis exhibition was a part of the activities. Roscoe Tanner, Kiawah's touring professional and then-ranked in top 10 in the world, played Tom Gorman in a singles exhibition.
Sheds Pittsburgh Commercial And Residential Storage Sheds
By: Matt | 01/01/2010When you think of a storage shed, you may be thinking of the kind that is used in many backyards everywhere. These are used for storing items that the family uses in the yard and other seasonal items. Although these sheds are very popular and very useful, they are not the only kinds of sheds used today.
Handgun Silencers For Sale
By: Devin Dozier | 30/12/2009A handgun silencer is a piece that connects to a gun and suppresses the amount of noise made when the gun is fired. Although it quiets the gun to a much lower decibel level, it does not completely eradicate the noise. Silencers are also called suppressors since they do not truly silence the sound of the gun, only suppress it and hide the noise. There are a few things you should find out first before looking for handgun silencers for sale.
Rise of Woman in Male driven Society
By: Jim Smith Frederick | 29/12/2009The woman empowerment organizations and the events conducted by them have changed life of many women.
Colt Combat Commander For Sale
By: Devin Dozier | 29/12/2009Of all the kinds of hand guns out there, the colt commander is one of the best. This handgun goes back through history of 168 years. You will be able to choose from over four hundred different models of the colt combat commander for sale. If you decide that you need a good hand gun, one that you can depend on and will outlast you in years, this is the gun for you.
AK 47 For Sale
By: Devin Dozier | 29/12/2009You can find an AK 47 for sale in many different styles. These are a very intimidating gun and are more of a collector's item for most buyers. Some may never even be fired or rarely. The magazine on these alone is enough to scare most people but if you are into guns then this is one you are sure to want.
Glock 23c For Sale
By: Devin Dozier | 28/12/2009If you are after a gun that is easy to use, stylish, and has an incredible power then you will want to find a Glock 23C for sale. Whether you are after a handgun to form a collection, for security, or simply to fire off a few rounds at a firing range each week then you will not be disappointed by this choice of weapon.
Ruger Handgun For Sale
By: Devin Dozier | 28/12/2009There can be many reasons for owning or using a gun. You may want a weapon so that you feel safe in your home, as a hobby, for a collection, or simply because you like the feel of the metal in your hand. There is a massive array of guns available, if you are after an option that is lightweight and easy to handle then you should look out for a Ruger handgun for sale.
Are You Getting Enough Fiber?
By: xavier smith | 19/12/2009 | HealthAre you frustrated about not being able to loose that last ten pounds? Are you doing a ton of workouts and not seeing the results. We have simple tips you can do right now to help shed the excess fat, and there is no sweat required.
Protecting Yourself With Your Open Hands
By: xavier smith | 27/10/2009 | Martial ArtsSo how do you think you would respond if you were attacked or approached from behind by a stranger? Would you like to know a simple system of self-defense that is easy to learn and employ and does not involve martial arts moves? Well then you are in the right place.