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1- Never get into confrontation, just avoid them as far as possible , avoid them at any cost.Choose your own path.
2- Never develop ego on your specialties and qualities, which is ephemeral, to retain them with you, be humble and think them as the gift of God to retain them for ever.
3- Pay attention to self give sometime to self ,sit in silence with proper self analysis and understanding of self through self talk remove inner dilemmas.Give some time to self , just do not get puzzled with worldly affairs, a few hour can make entire life worthwhile.
4- Through art of smooth and sweet talking with self remove all self doubts, conflicting thoughts and negative thoughts. Learn the technique of converting the negative thoughts into positive, through knowledge, meditation and with the companion of God. Now a days waste thoughts are disturbing more still one can easily avoid it to convert them into best and worthwhile thoughts through understanding and patience. Develope powerful brake to thoughts which is causing pain.
5- Do not make comparison with other physic, property, power and personality. You are unique. God has made you unique and want to make unique among all the unique, if you can understand and show a sense of gratitude for your uniqueness.
6- Lead the life with zero expectation, never expect in return of your service and sacrifice from relative, friends and family members.
7- Extract the inner solace of doing well not on the basis of praise, comment and criticism.
8- Work as an agent and instrument of God, many often as the companion of God you will remain light and easy.
9- Never disturb your balanced and routine life under the influence of bad companion, TV shows, or any immoral pleasure.
10- Be careless about the public opinion if you are in right path. Develope patience and self confidence. Be busy in your assignments or helping society . Make best use of time with adequate rest . Laziness, negligence or holding assignment is not good. Do not wait for tomorrow there is no right time to start any good plan and self transformation in positive direction.
11- How to judge whether you are in right path or not, right act will make you light, relaxed, puzzle free, happy, satisfied, calm and peaceful. It will increase the self respect.
12- Be humble otherwise will tumble, humble does not mean to bend rather to respect to the word, opinion, emotion of other, cooperating or obeying the word of other, help ethically never satisfy the evil need of some one to satisfy.
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