Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site
Your mind keeps wandering back to the last great time you had with your ex, and you just can't seem to get over the breakup. How can the Law of Attraction help you with this?
Give yourself some time to get over the initial sting of the breakup and then focus on your needs at this time. Going through a breakup can be emotionally as well as mentally draining. The best thing that you can do for yourself right now is to make sure that you are being pampered.
In the Law of Attraction, whatever you put the most focus toward, will attract to you what you focus on. If you spend too much time focusing on the breakup, the Universe will bring you more of the feelings surrounding your breakup. You're going to want to take your focus off the hurt of your breakup and see what life holds for you beyond this relationship.
Start focusing on what you are going to do with your life now that it is just you. Surround yourself with friends who encourage and talk beyond the breakup. Don't surround yourself with people who enjoy complaining about the pain of life.
Do something for you that you wouldn't normally do; something that tells you that you are paying special attention yourself. Maybe you can take yourself to a movie or buy that shirt that you saw the other day, just remember that even though you have suffered a breakup, it doesn't mean that you stop enjoying life.
Breakups happen and look at it as a page in the book of your life that you can look back on and know that you learned from that experience. But like a book, keep reading your book and move forward.
By concentrating on you and what makes you happy, the Universe will attract to you exactly that: Whatever makes you happy. Each day will become a little easier and then you will be ready to search for the "someone" you are looking to spend your life with. The best you can do is live and make the most of your days. Pretty soon the breakup will be just a word, and you will have moved on to a better relationship.
Think good thoughts, feel good feelings, pamper yourself, and don't lose hope of the ideal relationship.
Visualize yourself in a relationship that has all the qualities you want and enjoy life. That's all you have to do, and the Universe will do the rest by bringing you enjoyable life experiences in the meantime. And, if you play your cards right, a relationship that is exactly what you desire through the Law of Attraction will soon blossom and these hard days will be a faded memory.
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