Hesbon Nyambane is a leading authority on helping people realize their purpose in life . He is a born again christian based in Nairobi,Kenya.
On 1st June I attended a real AFRICA WEDDING for one of my friends called Pastor Clifford Ratemo, Held in Kisii, I was real touched by what I saw there. We guys who had come from the urban arrears came to embrace the fact that the real change in the African culture is taking place. According to the kisii tradition you can’t enter in the bride’s place without carrying a sufuria ad blanket for the mother-in-law to be and the suit for the father-in-law to be. After giving the necessary we were allowed to enter the compound and wait to take the bride afterwards we headed to the church for the ceremony.
Guys as we were watching the event unfolding, a certain Mzee commented about the comparison between the time he grew up and the way WEDDING where done and the time now and immediately something clicked my mind about the whole thing. Does it mean we should live in the past, the present or the future and don’t give me your views according to what you know but allow me to express myself because its happening all over the world and we cant assume it anyway.
First we should live the present why do I say so ,its because if we live consciously on what is happening and change the things at hand we are very sure that the future will be bright and forget of what happened in the past. What happens to us human beings including myself is that we try to live the past and wanting to change it for the better and we spend much of out time trying, tryng an trying whereby we waste most of our time in it and miss the opportunity to change our thoughts which is the engine of our lives in this world.
Many of us keep on thinking about what happened in the past, the broken relationship, the debts you have incurred from the past, the failed business you have ever attempted, the failing you ever had in school and I have come to realize that because of concentrating too much in the past we don’t have that enthusiasm of moving out and seizing opportunities which are waiting for you and keep on dwelling in the past negative thoughts ad through the LAW OF ATTRACTION we have attracted negative things which we don’t want in our lives like lack of money, broken relationship and many
The emotions we charge will determine if we shall achieve anything or not. Like now I come from Africa and all those who know Africa, it’s a continent full of resources and if there is a place in the world where whether you work or not but you must eat in Africa. The nature provides free resources to everyone but the irony is that it is the poorest continent we have and what is the reason behind it is because of the attitude we have towards life. Because everywhere you go you find very potential men and woman just sitting discussing people and if not people they are discussing events in the society. I don’t know about other areas but a place like the United States and other first world countries what is shaping those places is the thoughts they have towards life. For us to have the life want, we must starting changing our thoughts and living consciously and shall have anything we desire n this life. Hesbon Nyambane is a Motivational Speaker, Author and life coach who spends most of his time discovering inner miracles in individuals which will make them realize their purpose in life. He comes from a rich country Kenya in Africa where there is natural resources everywhere and got inspired by them that its is also like that in the human beings and want to spend his life telling people that they have “naturals resources “ in them if used can live fulfilled life.
Hesbon Nyambane has spend most of his time learning how we can solve difficult problems and situations in our lives and he will continue sharing with the world many discoveries how we can handle situation, he is married with one wife Christine working in a bank and they are blessed with one child called mark and are staying in Nairobi, Kenya. You can read his blog for free articles and materials at man’s potential www.hesbon.blogspot.com and you are free to distribute to your friends as long as you maintain the originality.
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