Anger, whether you are permanently feeling a latent anger, or experience sudden outbursts, anger is not on the wish list for most of us. Particularly when anger gets out of hand and you direct your anger and frustration towards your spouse, a colleague, or your children, creating bad feelings all round. Inevitably, once you calm down, anger turn into remorse and guilt . Now you are probably spending a lot of your time trying to make amends. What is more, you have two problems to contend with instead of one.
A life free from anger of course is pretty impossible. There will always be moments and situations when you are going to feel angry or frustrated. The real problem is not the anger in itself, but letting it get out of control. Finding effective strategies to manage your anger could solve a lot of unnecessary problems in your interpersonal relationships.
There are a number of effective ways to manage anger in a controlled fashion. One of the most simple and fasted methods around is EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique. EFT belongs to the family of energy therapies. It can easily be learned by anyone and has a very high success rate of over 90%. EFT uses a combination of mind focus together with tapping on a small number of meridian points on the upper body and face to clear the energy channels of body and mind.
The moment you notice anger coming up you tune into the anger and begin tapping on the meridian points whilst focusing on releasing the anger by speaking aloud a phrase as you tap. One round of tapping takes about one minute. You keep tapping the rounds until the anger subsides, which normally happens very quickly, within a few minutes. Once you have successfully released the anger in this way, you gain new clarity of mind. You may experience a sudden sense of relief, as if a weight has been lifted off your shoulders.
This is a very refreshing feeling and will often lead you to new insights into the problem, that has caused the anger.Seening your situation in a new light is incredibly empowering and liberating. You will renewed confidence and an increased sense of self worth.
If you make EFT part of your daily routine you may soon find that you become calmer and more relaxed. Problems that used to get you wound up become less bothersome and even cease to exist. You can use EFT for a wide variety of emotional and physical problems. Please check out how EFT can improve your life, There is plenty of information about on the internet.Used correctly EFT can change lives.
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