Do not expect more then your share
Our life is full of expectations. We do something and then we wants its results or results of our efforts, our work and this waiting period is very hard to spend. We are never sure that the result shall come in our favour. We have a doubt and this doubt creates so many troubles and tension in our mind.
Even Lord Krishna through Bhagwad Geeta had advised us that we should do our duty and then we should leave the result to God. He may give us success or there may be chances that we may fail and if we really fail, we should try to find out our weaknesses and we should not blame God or our luck. We should accept that while at work in that project, we might have done something wrong which resulted in this failure.
This life is full of tensions, pressures and problems and therefore, we should create a habit in us to bear all these contingencies of life. The results are not always favourable to us and when those are not in our favour, we should bear all this and we may even say that God had written such a failure in our luck list and that is the reason such failures have happened. We should think of the next time and when we take up such a project in our hand, we should be cautious that we shall succeed this time and what we had not done during the past such exercise, we shall not repeat the same and this time, we shall be having better planning, a better execution and better efforts. And we shall succeed because man always learns from his defeats and man does not learn from his successes.
We must learn that this tension causes us much losses and it snatches away even our sleep and when do not have complete sleep in the night, this shall cause us so many losses. Tension shall take away our happiness, our pleasure and even our face value shall be lost. We shall lose our beauty and charm and the people who shall be meeting us shall be commenting upon us adversely and at times they shall be enquiring from us as to what wrong had happened with us. If we are beloved of someone, even that fellow shall not be liking us. We must know that all love free and smiling people and when we are in sad mood, none likes us. Therefore, we should avoid all such events in our life which are causing us tension, pressures and troubles.