My name is Tunde Taiwo.Born in 23 of June, 1977 in a beautiful town of Ibadan.But a native of a town called Ogbomosho.A writer and information marketer by profession.I read accountancy as a course in a college,having it mind to get my masters in the near future.
FORGIVENESS, IS IT A POINT TO CONSIDER?
Why forgiving others? Why should we not pay back those who have add to our pain in their coin? Is it necessary that we put behind us the evil that have been done to us? How important will forgiving others be to us? All these will serve as a base to this article to emulate and to expatiate the cons and pros of forgiveness.
It’s a normal note to see man offending each other, reacting to one another how we felt concerning a certain issue. And what most of us failed to consider is that we never see the wrong side of ours but that of the blame victim. And that is the reason blame game as been the other of the day.
Seeing two wonderful friends starting a business together and enjoying the reward of their sweat until one of them get married, then the problem started. Wife of the married one never seen any positive influence the other partner can bring to his husband life and was always insinuating problem in any business discussion of his partner shared with his wife So, they have no choice than parting ways so that both can enjoy peace in their individual life.
And while at the end of the day the married couple sees his marriage to be at the crumbling side as a result financial mess, for his new business doesn’t work out as expected and the other partner of his which he have parted ways with is doing fine and showing it out to the marriage guy how foolish he is by listening to his wife. Then the married guy now have to hire an accountant and a lawyer to burst his friend ego of how he dupe him while the later kick dust in the face and attack the suit.The first man never see anything bad in showing his friend how foolish he was, neither his marriage friend as well think the best thing is to take his pound of flesh is the court of law and the blame game begin.
Therefore, when you see how much negative impact you have in a circumstances you prevent more damages to yourself and the world at large for every single occurrence you incure an anger or spurt your venom of hatred , you subtract a whole chunk of healthy strength out of your life but when you invite peace you receive good health and happiness and that is why God almighty himself approved of forgiveness.
“For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive you:
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your father forgive your trespasses”
Mathew 6:14-15
So I think friend, forgiveness is a point to consider.
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