Is it possible to rid your life of someone that you just don't want around by using the Law of Attraction to accomplish this? It all depends on you.
There are many reasons why someone may be in your life. They could have been put there for you to learn something; to help you attain what you are focusing on. They could be there because you have been focusing on the 'don't want' of something in your life and they represent the very 'don't want' that you are focusing on. The person you want to be out of your life is aligning with you. They are vibrating at the same rate you are and that is why they are in your life.
So how do you change your own thoughts and feelings to reflect this person leaving your life? You have to change your perception of the situation and focus on the solution of why this person is in your life.
You'll want to start by allowing. Allow the person you don't get along with to be who they are and respect them as a fellow creator in this life. Even though you may not like their choices or maybe even their personality, they are creating their world. So steer clear of judging their creations. Accept that they are who they are and nothing you say will change what they are creating unless they want to change it. Don't just tolerate this person, but allow them to be who they are while not putting any energy to the 'don't want' of the situation.
After you have come to terms with 'allowing' this person, it's time to begin your focus on what you want from the situation. When you focus on the 'don't want', it all becomes more complicated. By wanting someone desperately to leave your life it causes that desperate 'don't want' to stick around. You want to visualize by seeing the peaceful solution to the situation. Maybe you visualize your getting along with this person or maybe you focus on a different environment for yourself that will take you away from this person. Visualize your wonderful peaceful life and visualize it without this person in it. It doesn't mean you are getting rid of this person but that life is just as good without this person.
When you come from the standpoint of 'getting rid of ' you are coming from a lack and 'don't want' emotion that brings you exactly what you don't want. When you come from the standpoint of having a peaceful relationship with this person and/or everything going just as you want your life to go by just visualizing life without this person in the picture, you are coming from a positive and 'want' emotion that brings you exactly what you want or better. See the end result of what you want in this situation and let the Universe take care of the how.
You will find that by seeing your life in a peaceful place you begin to change your own perception of your own life and creation and you begin to vibrate at a different rate than the person you don't want around. They will either step up to the plate and vibrate at a peaceful level with you or they will leave your world completely. They may not be comfortable at the vibration level you are at.
During this whole time remember to 'allow' and remember not to put any lack energy to the situation by focusing on how you can't stand them being around. This will only keep them clinging to you. Repeat after me: "Allow and release, allow and release, allow and release."
You will find your obnoxious person will begin to change or leave your world by your just changing your own perception to create the world that you want through the Law of Attraction.
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