Deborah Ailman is a Law of Attraction teacher and practititioner. She lives in the Tampa Bay area of Florida with her husband of twenty three years. She is mother to six beautiful cats and one very noisy bird. Her passion in life, besides living the Law of Attraction is animal welfare worldwide.
It's amazing how well your life can go when you learn to successfully apply the Law of Attraction to improve your life and manifest your goals. Opportunities come out of the woodwork. Things happen in a way you never thought they could. Let me tell you a little story that wil help bring what I just said into sharper focus.
Every day there are wonderful things happening to people everywhere. There's plenty of positive stuff out there. People getting raises, having their first child, buying a new car,etc. Perhaps you even know one (or more) of them. What is your usual reaction? Are you happy for them? If your best friend gets a new car what is your reaction? Are you jealous? Dld you politely congratulate them but seethe inside? "Why couldn't it be me" you think to yourself angrily.
Let's take a deeper look at this scenario. At first blush, you might think you just asked the universe for a new car as well. But did you? Actually the jealousy you emitted out just told the universe that, in fact, you want more things to be jealous of.
You see it's all about vibration. The higher you vibrate (and these are the positive emotions such as joy, love, appreciation,happiness) the more of these positive states the universe will mirror back to you. In the same vein, the more negative vibes you send out (such as jealousy,anger,hate) the more these vibes will bounce back to you.
And vibration spreads. Let me give you a different scenario, in fact a true one which has just happened to me.
My best friend has a daughter (a beautiful, talented girl of twenty four) who just this weekend got engaged to the man she has loved for years. Their relationship was rocky, on and off, until her fiance realized that she is the perfect woman for him. Well, he asked her to marry him and of course she said yes. I have a picture of them sitting together at a table holding hands and beaming with happiness. I can look at that picture and I can do one of two things. I can take the negative route and say to myself " oh look at her all young and pretty with a handsome fiance and a big old ring on her finger". Will the universe give me a handsome young fiance( this could be a problem since I'm married!) and a big diamond ring? No. My vibration is negative so the universe will just give me more things to be jealous of. Now, on the other hand, if I look at that picture and feel the love those two have for each other then the universe will give me more things for me to love.
Feel joy. Every day. Even for the little things. Write down what you are grateful for (even if it's having no cavities after your visit to the dentist). Look at that list often. And feel grateful. If you do, I guarantee you'll have more to be grateful for than just a perfect dentist visit). The Law of Attraction will be on your side if you want it to be.
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