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In Order for Things to Change, you Must Change First

People always say, "It ’not entirely my fault. The situation is not within my control."

The true fact is: we always play a role in creating whatever is happening to us, consciously or subconsciously.

Our experiences are created through our actions and thoughts. If you’re saying something, and thinking of the other way, people around you can pick up the vibes. Your body language will also show.

Successful people always believe they’re in control of their lives, and they created their world. If everything is going great, then they created it, not anybody else. If things are not going well, then they created it as well.

I’ve met people who’ll constantly tell me that they’re never lucky enough to land themselves into a great opportunity. They believed that they’re never at the right place at the right time.

If you never find any good opportunities, it could be because of your limiting beliefs and thoughts. If you believe that there are no opportunities around, your mind will tend to delete all the great opportunities, even if they are there right before you.

Once there was a woman who had been looking for the right partner for the last 15 years. She was in her late 30s and getting concerned she would never find her ideal guy.

When asked what she was looking for, she started describing this perfect man who had to be rich, charming, humorous, sensitive and gentle.

When asked bluntly, 'Would this man with all these traits want to marry you?' Interestingly, her reply was NO.

If she wanted to attract the perfect man, she must first be that perfect woman to attract him!

The single most important message that this article want to send out to you is: FOR THINGS TO CHANGE, WE MUST FIRST CHANGE OURSELVES. When we take responsibility for what we get and change ourselves, everything and everybody else will change with us!

If you want to attract the best staff, be the best boss If you want to have the best kids, be the best parent If you want the perfect wife, then be that perfect husband If you want the highest income, add the greatest value If you want to attract the best customers, become the best company

Focus on yourself and success will come.

Allan Heng

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