Beth and Lee McCain are instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction in life to attain what you desire. For more information, please visit: http://www.bethandleemccain.com
Wondering if the Law of Attraction is selfish is like asking is it wrong to be happy. All that anyone wants is to be happy with life, and everyone has different ways of creating a fulfilling life. Some of us choose to explore the Law of Attraction to help us learn to live in joy, and at the same time make our lives worth living by attaining what we desire.
But how can your being happy help others?
First, you make a conscious decision to be happy. You see life as a wonderful gift you've been given and you begin to manifest what you desire in your life through the Law of Attraction.
Soon your spouse sees how joyous you are these days and she starts to relax and decides that she too will 'live' life and she starts waking up perkier and less concerned about the irritants in her life. Then the kids see that Mom and Dad are nice and relaxed and actually laughing more, and even playing.
Your sister and her family drop by for a visit and want to know the secret to your happiness and success. You tell her. Her husband and she get on the band wagon and create a more fulfilling life for themselves.
Do you see where this is going? By your making a conscious effort to enjoy life you have positively affected the lives of others. But don't just stop at your spouse and family. When you go to the grocery store, when you go to work, when you go to the video store, your infectious joy will create more joy in others. Tell me, how is this selfish?
The Law of Attraction is very giving if you let it. When you help another, you will receive help from the Universe as well. Do you help so that you can receive more back? You could, but giving and helping with a glad heart is the right thing to do. The fact that you will receive the same treatment is just a wonderful side effect.
The groups accusing the Law of Attraction of being selfish just don't understand the Law of Attraction or how it works. When someone doesn't understand something, they tend to pick out points they think they understand and tear it apart from their perspective. That is from their perspective. Many people can't fathom that it could be as easy as 1-2-3 to start having a life of joy and live the life that they desire through the Law of Attraction.
Happiness isn't something you attain to. You have to find happiness in your life now, and be grateful for it. As you become grateful and start living in joy, everything else will fall into place. No matter what you are going through, you can find some happiness in your life. If you believe your happiness will come only when your finances are straight or when you have found the perfect relationship, it is a fallacy. Find and live happiness now and you will then see your life morph into the life you desire.
When you think and feel on what you want and pay less attention to what you don't want, this will bring you situations and people in your life that will make you happy. Being happy isn't selfish. Being happy will help everyone around you.
The ultimate goal is to live your life and be happy while doing it. Want to get up in the morning, and having your job feel like play? Enjoy life as you want your life to be through the Law of Attraction.
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