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Look What Stephen Did! Profiles in Goal Achievement
Author: Margie Remmers  | Posted: 28-03-2008 | Comments: 0 | Views: 3 | Rating: (51)  (?) 
"You can't fly planes! Be more realistic!!"
Those were the words of Stephen Hopson's well-meaning parents.
You see, Stephen was born with a passion for flying, but he was also born profoundly deaf.
When he was just four years old, Stephen would beg his mother to take him to the airport so he could watch the planes take off and land. He would stand at the perimeter fence and watch until the plane went taxing toward the runway. At that point, he would run back to the car and gently place his head its hood.
"That plane would take off and the roar of its engines could be 'heard' through the tremendous vibration I would feel," says Stephen. He describes the vibration as what you would feel if you put your hand on top of a furiously shaking washing machine. "That, of course, always made my day. It made my dream of flying even more vivid and made it easier for me to ignore my parent's well-meaning lectures."
Later, Stephen would construct makeshift villages with flying planes overhead and pretend he was a pilot coming in for a major landing.
When we was old enough to drive, he continued the ritual of taking himself to the airport to watch the planes take off and land.
Sometimes, he would go for a long drive in the country. "After looking around for traffic, I'd swerve the car in the middle of the highway so that the broken white lines would slide beneath the car, and I'd imagine I was a pilot roaring down the runway for takeoff or landing. I'd put my hand on the gear, pretending it was a throttle. Then I'd act like a real pilot by pressing imaginary buttons in the car as if they were lights, switches, dials and other instruments. It made it so real one time I had to pull off and cry."
"That," says Stephen, "is the power of visualization--imagining yourself as doing something and actually feeling as if it were truly real. At times I would be overwhelmed with a sense of 'knowing' that one day I'd take my first flight lesson."
But there are no deaf pilots, right? So Stephen put aside his dream and became a successful stockbroker on Wall Street.
It wasn't until years later, when fate landed him in Michigan, that Stephen's dreams started to become reality.
He had come there to work on a book project, and although that didn't turn out as he had hoped, while there he somehow stumbled onto information about deaf pilots.
"I found that they had been in existence since 1948, much to my utter shock. I had no idea!
"That's when my childhood dreams came roaring back to life in an instant. I was instantly transported back to my childhood fantasies and set out to find a flight instructor to work with me, not knowing how it would pan out."
He found that instructor and went on to become the world's first deaf "instrument rated" pilot.
Though it's easy enough for a deaf pilot to fly on a nice day, it gets tough when there's inclement weather and visibility is poor. It's times like these that you have to rely on only the instrument panel and your communication with the radio tower.
That's why, though there have been many deaf pilots throughout history, Stephen is the first to be instrument rated.
Learning how to fly solely by reference to the instruments presented its own challenges, as this involves wearing a restrictive view device, which prevented him from turning to his instructor and reading lips for instructions. "Communication was then done by dry erase board," says Stephen, "which would be shoved under my view limiting device, and I'd read it."
Once he conquered the skill of flying solely by reference to the instruments, Stephen and his flight instructor turned to the task of radio communication, and in 2006, Stephen made history when the FAA allowed him to modify the instrument rating and fly as pilot in command through bad weather with another hearing copilot onboard whose job is to handle the radios.
Today, Stephen divides his time between flying among the clouds and working as a professional speaker, author, and consultant, teaching others how they can overcome their own adversity and achieve their heart's desire.
So what's Stephen's advice for you to make your dreams become reality? It's the H.E.A.R. principle:
-- Have a passion;
-- Entertain the possibilities;
-- be Authentic (that is, don't try to measure up to someone else's expectations of you or compare yourself with another person); and,
-- Remember who helped you along the way.
You really can have what you want. But like Stephen, you must never give up the passion to achieve it, no matter what obstacles stand in your way.
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 About the Author:Margie Remmers is an author, business owner, and mom--with an expertise in helping people achieve their goals. To find out how she can help you, visit her online at:
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