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What are the Views of Others

Author: Dalip Singh Wasan Author Ranking Gold Featured Author | Posted: 27-03-2008 | Comments: 0 | Views: 4 | Rating:  (50) Article Popularity - Green (?) Got a Question? Ask.
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What are the views of others?

When we want to assess ourselves or when we want to have an introspection, we must try to assess not through our own views, but we should have in our mind the views of others. We are selfish and we believe that we are the most wise person ever produced in this world and therefore, when we are having an introspection, we start believing that we were never wrong and if something wrong had happened with us that could be the fault of others or God had written our luck and destiny like that and we are suffering. When we want to have an introspection, we must have an eye on others and we must try to understand what the other people are thinking about us. The following points are suggested:-
1. Whether the people like to meet us or they are avoiding our presence ?
2. Whether they like to discuss their difficulties and problems with us or they are concealing all the things from us?
3. Whether the people like to place their demands before us or they do not count us in the list of those persons from whom they expect help?
4. Whether the people are proud of the fact that we are their friends or they are sorry to say that they are close to us?
5. Whether the people talk about us and that too in good sense or they talk about us and tell something bad about us?
6. Whether the people want to remain with us for some time or they are trying to leave us?
7. Whether the people try to have relations with us or they are not willing to have matrimonial and other friendly relations with us?
8. Whether the people shall be recalling us when we are no more near to them or we are out from this world?
9. Whether the people like our neighbourhood or they are sorry to have a house near to us?
10. Whether the people are happy that we are their colleagues and are working with them as their colleagues, as their subordinates or as their officers?
11. Whether our parents are proud of the fact that we are their children?
12. Whether our parents are proud of the fact that they are having such children?
13. Whether our children are proud of the fact that we are their parents?
14. Whether our relations are proud of the fact that we are one of their relations?
15. Whether the people trust in our action and in our words?
16. Whether the people shall be ready to advance us some money when are in dire need?
17. Whether the people shall be expecting that we shall reach at the time which we have promised?
18. Whether the people shall be referring our name with respect or they shall be passing adverse remarks while referring our name?
19. Whether our life partner believes in our honesty and integrity or he or she has got doubts on our conduct?
20. Whether we are in a position to maintain the family which we have established and the members added by us or they are having so many complaints?
21. Whether we are efficient, hard worker and can complete the work in time as promised?
22. Whether we are a responsible person or everybody is trying to avoid us?
23. Whether the people can have trust in us?
24. Whether we are a bribe taker, a corrupt, we are indulging in scams, scandals or muddles?
25. What is the assessment of people about our character?
26. Whether we can steal things of others?
27. Whether they can place their belonging with us believing in us that we shall never misappropriate their belongings?
28. What is the number of our friends and what is the number of our enemies?
these are some of the points on which we must .concentrate and if our results are on the better side, we are a good person and if we come to the conclusion that others are not having good opinions about us, then we are not a good person. We can locate our weaknesses and then we can make improvements and this is the way of life and we must adopt this life style.
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