Jennifer is a passionate Solutions Focused Life Coach and author that believe that the possibilities in life are unlimited and that we all have the power within us and the knowledge of this can only empower and motivate individuals. Jennifer believes that if we change out thinking we can also change our lives. She states that she herself is work in progress and also looking to improve her techniques and strategies in order to pass this information onto others. Located at: http://jadavision.com/index.htm Email: jadavision@yahoo.co.uk
Why not HAVE what you want to HAVE?
This is part of the BE, DO, HAVE series….
This is to help you find your happiness, your purpose, your dream. Find what motivates you to do what you truly love doing.
Remember if you keep doing what you have always done you will keep getting what you have always got. Change what you are doing, change you’re thinking because in doing this you will change your life. You are the only person that can change you.
Tools you will require
Note book and pen.
Get yourself a note book to answer the following questions and you will start to see a pattern emerge. This is a very powerful tool that I believe should be used by everyone. I have used it myself, I have used all of my motivational material and that is why I can write about them with such passion because I know that they work. I also use them with my clients and get very excited when I see it working in their lives and even more excited when my clients get it and realize the power in the work that they are doing on themselves.
By now you should have done some work on what you want to BE? What you want to DO?
If you have not done the work, it is recommended that you do the work before working in this area.
Before you can have anything you are required to do something before having it. You have to take action because there is no cause with effect. To have something you need to do something so what is the something that you like to do?
Think about the questions and answer them. Write your answers in your note book.
HAVE
What do you want to HAVE in your life?
What would you life look like if you had want you wanted to HAVE in your life?
Imagine, visualize it
Make a list of all the things that you like to have when I say all things I mean all things all those things that you thought that you could not have for one reason or another.
When writing your list remember there is no limited to what you can have so please do not limit yourself, remember anything.
Here is something to think about
Have you ever felt that you have been under paid for something?
Have you ever felt that you have been over paid for something?
Taking time out to think about these questions and pondering on them will limit your thinking and take up too much of your time so please move on because these things are in the past and you can not change the past only your future.
Think of it this way payment is when a service is rendered and a fair day’s pay for a fair day’s work, and the more people you help, the more you are worth in the market place.
Here are a few ideas of some of the things you can have:
Power (social, work, family, etc)
Status (social, work, family, etc)
Sex (attraction, partner, etc)
Financial rewards
Recognition
Growth
Adventure
What would you like?
This is part of the BE, DO, HAVE series (inspired by New Insights)
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