Your sex life is a vital part of a relationship. If you're able to keep things fun and exciting, then it'll be easy to please your woman
Unfortunately, there are many times when the sizzle in the bedroom has gone out of a relationship. Even if you're with the most attractive women in the world, you'll face some moments when you need to make things more exciting.
That's why experimenting with sex games can be an exciting way to spice things up with your women.
For instance, here are 3 great sex games you can try:
1- Peeping Tom & Jane
Ok this tip might be a little extreme...But if you can try a bit of voyeurism with your woman, I guarantee you'll discover a unique to turn each other on.
In many major cities and urban centers, there are many special clubs and groups where you can go to watch other couples (and individuals) do various acts of sex. The only thing that's required is to go to one of these places and watch what happens here.
By observing other couples doing stuff, you'll turn each other on from the excitement. In fact, being a voyeur you'll probably make things really interesting. You might not make it back to the bedroom before you're practically tearing each other's clothes off.
2- Baby you can drive my car
Having sex in a car is a great way to have a thrilling time.
Whether it's the change of venue or the thrill of getting caught, getting it on in car is quite an aphrodisiac. This is especially true if it's in a somewhat public place.
While you might have a nice home nearby, it's still thrilling to pull over into a secluded area and jump into the backseat for a quicky.
3- Make all her fantasies come true
Every man and woman has different fantasies about their sex life. In this particular sex game, you take turns fulfilling one another's fantasies.
It works like this...
Each of you writes down a list of the things which turn you on. Then you exchange these "fantasy diaries". Once this happens, it's up to the other partner to fulfill these fantasies.
Now there might be certain fantasies which don't jibe with your personal code of ethics. If that is the case, you can simply ignore the ones you don't like and move on to ones which you know will provide a lot of excitement.
Bringing sex games into your relationship is an excellent way to make things more fun and exciting. If you can experiment with the 3 sex games I described in this article, you'll discover that it's quite easy to spice things up.
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Creeper
By: bogahome4 | 22-07-2008
I am dating a man I now consider a creeper. He stands in the corner of bars, wears gold chains and unbuttons his shirt to expose his chest hair. Any advice on how to get him to quit? My feeling is if any woman gave him attention he would leave me.
Do I continue pursuing this girl?
By: Tony | 21-07-2008
I am very smitten with a girl I met a few years ago at a music store I was working in. She was initially annoyed when I first called, (her number was on her demo CD), but came in about a year or so later and was friendly and seemed to be flirting a little. Given her initial reaction I wanted to ask her out, but didn't. I guess I was happy she was just being friendly.I've been sending her little notes on her My Space for the past year, and she hasn't responded. I finally got a chance to see her about two weeks ago, she did a CD signing at a show, I was surprised at the very warm reception I got. She gave me two very nice hugs, one was a lingering hug with her holding me very tight, and we chatted a little, she said she'd like to play some music with me sometime. I gave her my number and Email, and said I'd like to chat with her, and get together sometime. It's now almost 14 days, and I havn't heard anything. Should I give this one more try, and ask her directly to meet sometime or for her number/Email, or should I forget it?
Where to go from here questions of a confused guy
By: LiveFast2011 | 02-03-2008
Ok sorry for some reason this didnt work the first time. Alright Ive pretty much fallen in love with a girl ive known forever and i am getting signals back from her but not exactly sure how to go about advancing things the situations.....complicated. Some background:Im a Preachers Son and she used to go to the church we attended before there was a big conflict and it split. We went one way her family stayed put. That was 3 years ago i hadnt seen her since, but than suddenly i got to high school and saw her and she...well she got absolutely beautiful. Come 2nd semester i find out i have 4th period with her and we sit right beside eachother. Now we started to catch up and she is just amazing, she always makes me laugh and shes one of 2 people that ive ever met who can make me smile no matter what. I always am messing around with her making her smile and laugh. Theres been some times when ive felt a spark but you can never trust that. One of her freinds keeps tellin me i should ask her out because she thinks shes keeping me open as an option but she doesnt really talk to her that much so i have no idea. All i know is that im in love with her and that i make her happy. If i dont get into one of the service academies than were Both going to the same college and we go to some of the same camps every summer. I just dont know if i should jump right into a relationship with her, having dropped off the face of the planet and just showing up 3 years later. I also dont even know how she really feels about me so i dont really want to bust in guns blazing. I just need some advice on how to carry on and how to find out her feelings without totally screwing myself over. THanks just ask if you have any questions about this. Josh
I love my man but won't reach orgasm that often i ...
By: ladym | 13-01-2008
i love my man but won't reach orgasm that often i only reach it once a week, i enjoy making love with him all the time, but it worries him a lot when i don't get one, he thinks i don't love him that much although i've told him several times that i really enjoy him, what should i do?
Hi, my girlfriend has really enjoyed her orgasms ...
By: bunnylover | 07-01-2008
hi, my girlfriend has really enjoyed her orgasms and we are both trying new things to help. only problem is, she is now finding it hard to orgasm and sometime we have been at it for about 4 hours and still no joy. we have bought cliterol stimulation toys and vibrators and have lots of foreplay and kissing. we never rush. but the more she wants to orgasm the harder it is getting, and we are both fustrated. is it the fact that i her partner am rubbing the wrong place? i use toys on her cliteros and my tongue for hours but still she struggles. she says she get that tingling feeling but then it just loses it. please can anyone help. weve been together 14 years and had a very good sex life but we want it too be better with her cumming first. thanks in advance bunylover
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i m not a handsome or smart or goodlooking as my fellow mates use to look,but my problem is that i m in love with a girl who is in love with my friend.my friend doesnt love him and he is neither interested in her.he is ready to hand over her to me ,but she loves only her.she even proposed her.she doesnt talk to me,but i wanna talk to her,want to tell her about my feelings .plz suggest 4 simple ways to reach through her.
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