35 Sex Tips to Spice Up your Love Life

2. Explore motions and really get to know your own body or maybe just find new tricks. Girls ride your man moving your hips in all ways possible and with your body at different angles. Take notes between you of which positions and movements hit the spot.

3. Silky smooth newly shaven balls. For the man, this offers excitement of naked balls and the sexy sensitivity of when they are touched. For the woman - soft shaved balls are so much nicer to suck and lick.

4. The ‘No Penetrative Sex’ pact. You both agree to the terms of no actual sexual intercourse, however all other forms of foreplay are allowed, things like - licking, sucking, kissing, oral sex, toy play, the list could be endless according to your tastes. The Pact not only extends foreplay but also encourages great foreplay; as one tries to out do the other to see who will want intercourse first.

5. Massage oil. Rub one another down slowly in massage oil slightly warmed in the microwave. Let your bodies glide against each other to massage and feel the tantalising sensations.

6. Pizza! One of you goes out to get a take out pizza, and when they return they are the pizza delivery person, and the partner invites them in and tries to seduce them.

7. Buy a new sex toy and discreetly hide it and surprise your partner by producing it during your next lovemaking session.

8. Blindfold your partner and lead them to a large flat surface - a table or maybe the floor. Lay them down on their backs and decorate their body in food - slices of strawberries, whipped cream, jelly, sliced bananas, ice cream syrups. Their skin will tingle with delight. You can either massage it into their body and get dirty, or eat it off them.

9. Read erotic stories or confessions in adult magazines together. Whilst one reads the other masturbates or performs oral for the reader.

10. Go out on a date. Fix up a date and get ready for it at different locations and meet up in a bar. Feel the excitement of dressing up for your partner and preening yourself so to impress. Feel the anticipation of meeting up, wondering what they will be wearing, and if they remembered to put their knickers on.

11. Use your lover as a canvas for painting on. Lay them down on the floor and use children’s finger paints and assorted brushes - feathers, fingers, breasts, penis, sponges - I’m sure you will think of lots of other things you could uses as brushes.

12. Host a huge party at your house, and when the party is swinging and the wine is flowing; sneak about with your lover, hiding in silly places - the broom cupboard, the car, or lock your selves in the bathroom for some heavy petting.

13. Why not visit a swingers club together or a fetish or strip and lap dancing club. Participation isn’t compulsory, and you might find just watching arousing. Check out our ‘out and about’ page for more information and to see what’s happening near you.

14. Bathe together. Fill the bathroom with candles and the bath with bubbles and take a nice bottle of wine with you. Wash each other and talk and relax, mind you don’t loose the soap!

15. Whilst at work or when your apart, strike up a mobile phone text sex conversation - It could start 'When I get home I'm going to do _ _ _ _ _ _ to you'. Spend the day titillating each other with steamy messages building up a story.

16. Have a picnic on the living room floor on a blanket or cushions and pillows in front of the fire.

17. Ice cube play. Make a tray of ice cubes and rub one over your lover’s naked body seductively. Stroke it over their nipples and genitals and watch their reaction.

18. Body piercing is a little extreme but you can get a similar effect from non piercing nipple rings and clit clips.

19. Strategically place mirrors around the bedroom so that no matter what you get up to you can always see what’s happening from different angles.

20. You will have to think of a good excuse, but - hire a bouncy castle. Either find a secluded place in the garden to erect it or have your fun on it under the cover of darkness.

21. Talk about your fantasies, if you find talking about them difficult, write them down. Work through the list trying to fulfil these fantasies.

22. Dress up as a naughty nurse or doctor and let your lover be the patient and examine any unusual swellings.

23. Do a slow striptease or lap dance for your lover. Make it a slow dance and tease your lover with movements and gestures, but don’t let them touch you until your ready. Tease them into frenzy.

24. I know it’s an old cliché, but - sex on the washing machine whilst it’s spinning. If the tremors don’t excite you maybe the location will.

25. Undress each other with your teeth.

26. Get an assorted collection of gloves - leather, lace, wool, surgical gloves and marigolds and test them all out during foreplay for different sensations with their textures.

27. Indulge in hair play. Trail and rub your hair over your lover’s naked body.

28. Lasting longer tips.
SQUEEZE - approximately 3 or 4 strokes before climax wrap your thumb and index finger around your cock and squeeze, concentrating the pressure on the urethra.
START & STOP - this involves stopping before climax to let the excitement clam and then starting again. Using this technique often is said to improve your sexual stamina, as too can regular masturbation.
CONDOMS - wearing condoms can also make you last longer because it reduces friction and sensitivity.

29. Use pillows to support and lift body parts during sex, intensifying positions and eliminating strain, making positions much more pleasurable.

30. Phone sex. This does require imagination. Probably the hardest part about phone sex is steering the conversation away from the ‘norm’ and down the steamy sexy road. Maybe you could start by talking about your last sexy encounter and develop from there. You could act out a fantasy. Move your own hands to where your partner says he would touch you.

31. A shaved pussy turns on some people. You might want to ask your partners views before you get the razor out. However it does increase sensitivity and stops the pubic hair between the teeth complaint.

32. Try BDSM (bondage, domination, sado, and masochism) Attend a S&M workshop or get a book for information. Lots of toys and props are available on the market geared to this fetish. But remember to agree on a safety word. If anyone uses this word during play, every thing has to stop.

33. Make you own porn movie. Grab a camera and tape your steamy sex session. It may be a little embarrassing to watch back, but very horny to make.

34. Keep your toys clean. There are sex toy cleaning products available. Keeping toys clean is very important, you don’t want to give yourself or your lover an infection.

35. Do a sexy photo shoot. You can change your clothing and undies, and create a collection of sexy photos. However, unless you have a digital camera, you will have to keep the pictures erotic rather than pornographic, else they wont be developed; and if you too shy to take and collect them from a developing shop, use a send away in the post developing place.