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Adult Dating 101: Mastering the Online Booty Call

With tantalizing words and tempting pictures, adult dating is a sexually exciting adventure - as long as you have online booty call skills.

Adult dating sites are a fantastical place that allows you to search for other individuals with burning sexual desires to satisfy, but there are a few points you should consider if you want to master the art of online booty call.

Is the sexual conversationalist legit?

Adult dating sites can be disappointing, especially when the players are not serious about running the bases on the game. An enticing individual might lead you on with risqu?© and explicit excitement - only to leave you cold and alone. Sometimes talk is cheap, and nobody shows up to put a hot body to the steaming words.

What questions can you ask to find out if a person's words will be sincerely backed up by their actions? You should establish a sense of credibility by reviewing what the person says for consistency. In addition, you should determine that you are either talking about a one night stand, a casual hook up here and there - or everywhere else in between.

People should be able to back up their claims about their identity, and that they have a sincere interest in a quick hook up with you.

Ask yourself the following questions:

Did the person provide real pictures? Is the person able to answer relevant questions about your general area? Is the person willing to talk on the phone about a potential meeting?

If you said no to any of these questions, prepare yourself for disappointment.

Swinging along

Swingers are one of the many exciting sub-groups that frequent adult dating sites. Casually mention the idea of swingers in your conversation, just to get a better idea of what your potential match has in mind.

If you are interested in the concept of swinging, then adult dating sites are a great place for you to seek out sexual fun.

Cut to the chase.

If you're in the market for authentic booty call, then make sure you disclose this information in a timely fashion. Keep it simple. A potential match with a similar interest will also be quick to let you know that they are in the market. However, even those who frequent adult dating sites may not be open to the fast-paced idea.

If you present the idea to someone on an adult dating site, and it is not welcomed, just try and try again.

If you bring up the idea of a quick casual encounter that is unwelcome, keep that person in mind, since the seed has already been planted. They may feel more comfortable meeting up with you later and fulfilling all those sexual fantasies.

Explore a variety of possibilities. You might have to frequent different sites in order to find individuals who have similar interests and desires. Stay away from those sites that trash talk swingers, advertise wedding dresses, or have too many pictures of people sitting down to a candlelit dinner. Eventually, you’ll find a site that caters to your sexual wants and needs – allowing you to reap the rewards of mastering the online booty call.

Aelicia Anderson

Since meeting her husband on an adult dating site in 2004 Aelicia Anderson has become one of the formats biggest fans. She now writes a popular swingers sex advice column for FlingFinder.

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