Are You Her Best Lover Ever?

As a sexologist, I talk to many men and women about sex. One thing that always strikes me is that most couples do not explore the true power of sexuality. Studies have shown that after 2 or 3 years of marriage, the women's interest in sex drops off about 50%.

In my private practice, I have yet to meet a married woman that is totally happy with the depth she is going in her lover life. I offer tantric massage to some women clients, and in 2 hours she can have the deepest, orgasmic experiences in her life. Many times, just one deep session causes her to make profound changes in her relationships as she gets more into her feminine power.

What are some of the keys for women to go deeper into her amazing erotic energy? I believe a woman has the potential to be 100 or even 1000 times more sexual than a man. I have experiences women having one-hour orgasms and even having orgasms just walking down the street.

Men too can have orgasms with no ejaculating and have waves and waves or these orgasms with no loss of energy. When a man can make love for hours and hours and have intense, deep valley orgasms the women just loves you so much. Men can learn to ride the waves of the women's orgasms for hours too.

What are some keys for women to go deeper? For deep valley orgasmic experiences, I feel a woman has to totally let go and surrender to her self. Unfortunately, most women seem to hold a lot of negative emotions in their body and do not feel safe to totally let go. Many women have had some experience of sexual abuse too. Deep tissue massage and body work is one method that can release these emotions. Something it can take 6 to 20 massage sessions to release these long held emotions. Rebirthing and breath work is another method I use in my private practice. Men too, have similar issues.

Some of these emotions are held in differing parts of the body. One area that many do not massage is surrounding the vulva and also inside the vulva and the g spot. In my private practice many times when touching these areas with presence and love, deep emotions get released. A lot of sadness, crying anger and grief can be released. After these get releases I find the client goes much deeper into her erotic energy.

Man and women that do not make noise during sex I believe block the energy moving in their bodies. Most men make love like they masturbate. They get in an energetic habit of coming too soon, and lack any emotional connection with their lover. The average man comes in 8 minutes in the USA. Most men make no sounds when the energy builds. The energy is in the sounds you make and your partner can feel more of your energy if you let it out.

Learn to let go more and make sounds are two keys to going deeper in your sexuality