Written by Suzie Harris, chief contributor to The Lazy Stud where she writes on everything from Rabbit Vibrators and dildos to hand cuffs and massage oils.
The back.
Run your fingers up and down her spine. Use massage oil to rub her all over. And at the same time kiss her back in different spots. Kisses and touches to the back drive women crazy. It might be ticklish to start, but once she is over the ticklishness the feeling is heavenly. Even the lightest kisses and touches on the bank will get her juices flowing.
The inner thighs.
The lightest fingers rubs up starting from the knee all the way up to the top of her thigh will have the hair on her arms standing on end. The inner thighs are a highly sensitive spot so just the lightest touches will have her aroused. While you are stimulating this area, don't even touch the vagina or clitoris, just keep your touches purely on her leg as this will have her craving your touch even more. Also lick up and down the inner thigh as hot soft tongue feels amazing on the thigh. You can even use sex toys like the bullets and eggs to vibrate on her thigh for a different sensation.
The neck.
This is a highly erotic and sensitive area for women. The lightest softest kisses on any are of the neck feel amazing. So tease her entire neck. Kiss it all over and all around the ears. Make sure you don’t leave a spot untouched.
The bottom.
She might be self conscious about it, but show her you love it no matter what shape and size it is. Rub and lick all over the cheek and even on the inside. This is called a rimming, and many women and men love the sensation of this. Vary the way you touch the bottom and vary the pressure of your tongue and fingers. If she likes anal play, then even try sex toys on her like from our anal toys category.
If you hit all these spots in one night, you are guaranteed to have her eating out of the palm of your hand – and she might even do it all back to you!
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