Female Stimulation Tip - Enrich Your Adult Vocabulary!

If you find that your lover is more often NOT in the mood than you should talk to her in a different way? Dirtier, perhaps? It may not make you more romantic but an expanded adult vocabulary can make you seem a bit more experienced and occasionally add a little intrigue to your sexual portfolio, which in turn stimulates a woman!

Note though that it helps to drop these words slowly and only every few weeks so as not to look like you are overly indulgent. Start with some of the "girl" words below and then move onto the "guy" words later on. There are also a number of "neutral" words and then there are the gay and bisexual words.

Adult Vocabulary Tips

Girl Stuff

Starting out slowly with some girl words like "lipstick lesbian" and "love tunnel" can make you look like a more experienced, intriguing guy. A lipstick lesbian is a lesbian who displays the "traditional" feminine dress so it's sort of a girl word rather than a gay term. This word is often associated with a cutesy, myth that a girl can still be a girl and a lesbian at the same time. They call her the "lipstick lesbian" and the suggestion is that maybe she isn't really a lesbian at all. Of course, the word love tunnel is just another word for her womanhood but it can get a girl excited if you use it at the right time.

Ever hear the word "pudendum?" This refers to a woman's external genitals; also known as the vulva. Sometimes a girl's fishnet stockings and mini-shorts might not cover her pudendum and it can be quite intriguing to hear a guy use this word. Another one is "maidenhead" which refers to the girl's virginity in relation to her hymen which has not yet been broken. "It was finally time for me to purge her maidenhead" was what a guy told me once and I was quite impressed with his vocabulary. Finally, there is the "make-out slut" who is known for her tendency to kiss many men but rarely have sexual intercourse.

Guy Stuff

Getting a little more "tough" and "manly," you guys should be careful to use these words until after the girl is a bit more comfortable. Nonetheless, the "Danza slap" is quite an interesting term that is used to refer to the activity of tapping a woman's face with your penis. It actually refers to the supposed myth that the actor Tony Danza once starred in adult movies and performed this act on several women at different points in his career.

Whether or not this tale is true is beside the point. What is interesting, however, is that the case of a true Danza slap involves the slapper raising his arms triumphantly and saying "Who's the Boss!" If that doesn't get them laughing at the party then nothing will.

On the subject of porn, there is also the term "gonzo", which refers to adult videos which lack any plot or pretense and just show the sex. For most girls, it all seems like gonzo but there are different levels of plot in the various porn movies and guys can warn a girl if the porn is going to be "pure gonzo" and therefore uninteresting if not plain rude.

Neutral

In terms of the more neutral adult terminology there is the "taint", the "dental dam", the "paraphilia" and the "petit mort". These words can all be useful to your expanded vocabulary. The "taint" is the strip of tissue between the genitals and the edge of the anus and this is true for both men and women. The word got it's origin because "it ain't the vagina and't ain't the penis and 't ain't the anus either!"

As for the "dental dam" and paraphilia, these can also be useful in the expanded vocabulary. A dental dam is a safe sex barrier used when performing oral sex on women. "Paraphilia" is the sexual obsession that usually happens around a fetish and excludes all other avenues of sexual fulfillment for both parties. It refers to a somewhat obsessive form of sex and can be used in a somewhat derogatory way rather than as an invitation. Finally, "petit mort" is French term meaning "little death" and refers quite creatively to - what else? - an orgasm.

Well there you have it. Tonight, you can dazzle your woman with your newly-learned adult words. See how she reacts. The beauty of this is that you can broach the topic in a light, non-threatening way. It's like the breaking the is to test how she responds to adult words.

If you see that she's game, then take it as starting point to include dirty words while making love.

Enjoy!