So you want to enjoy great sex and you want your partner to think of you as a great lover? Well the good news is that anyone can improve their sex life in the bedroom and the ten tips enclosed will help you and your partner enjoys great sex.
Let’s look at them.
1. Respect
Show your partner respect. It’s a known fact that women need much more mental stimulation to enjoy great sex than men and they need to be relaxed and feel desired and wanted.
So, be a considerate lover and make your partner feel beautiful and wanted. They will then relax and let themselves go which is the key for them to enjoy the experience to its fullest.
2. Foreplay
There are many erogenous zones and it is important to explore them all not just the obvious ones! Here we will give you just 3 examples, but there are more that you can target.
The neck – The nape of the neck is one of the best to target and will have your partner moaning with pleasure and wanting more so target it quickly.
The buttocks – What women is not sensitive about her behind? Target it and tell her it’s beautiful, not only is it a physical turn on, it’s a mental turn on to and women love having their bottom complimented.
The inner thighs - Highly sensitive and a great area to tease as your partner will be expectant of what happens next!
3. Best Sexual Positions
The best sexual positions are not the most complicated in fact, if you read the great works of erotic literature such as the perfumed garden or the Karma Sutra, you will see there are really 4 positions that give the maximum in satisfaction and you don’t have to be an Olympic athlete to do them.
We have written about them frequently, they worked thousands of years ago and still work today – great sexual positions don’t go out of fashion!
4. Control Your orgasm and last longer
One of the main problems men have is they come too quickly and this leaves their partner unsatisfied. However, there is one trick that you can learn that will help you control your climax and it is simply this:
SLOW DOWN YOUR BREATHING
Breathing quickens and as it does so you climax, but by slowing your breathing down you are fooling your body you are not ready to come and delaying the act.
We have written on techniques for doing this in other articles so look them up and learn the techniques their guaranteed to work.
5. Communication and complements
Sex is communication and should not be done in silence.
By complimenting and making noise not only can you learn about what your partner likes and doesn’t, you can compliment and express the pleasure you are having to. The spoken word adds a great deal too great sex, so make noise and communicate!
6. Sensuality & Variety
You can enjoy great sex by setting a mood and adding plenty of variety. For example you can add in some sensual oils to appeal to the senses or you can add some massage in before sex. Setting a mood helps relax you both and appeals to the mind which then ensures that the physical act is enjoyed even more.
So there you have it, ten tips that can help you enjoy better sex or even great sex with your partner – have fun.
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Well thanks for all the advice about the b/f and sex thing. lol : ).. But its like im still scared to tell him cause i never been in love before and i think he is the one for me.. And i don't want to lose him.. you know? i know all girls are suppose to feel this way about a first love and all, but i just don't understand it at all. like am i in love?? or is he the one for me?? How am i suppose to know this.. : ( Well if anyone can help me please do.. Cause like idk sometimes when i have sex with him i worry about getting pregnant and all.. we use a condom but idk. i just get scared.. Well all i got to say is i NEED ADVICE!
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Stick to what i know? or dabble in the riskay!?
By: SweetestTaboo | 19-07-2008
I just got out of a two and a half year relationship. well in actuality, the relationship title changes back and forth but he loves me like no other. he loves me regardless of lots of the crazy situations we have encountered. He has been very loyal and faithful to me, but i think our connection grew on me. I will not deny how i love him. we have an undeniable connection. our personalities connect so well but physically we are average. He was my first, and only love, i haven't been with anyone else. Sometimes i think he may be the one but how will i know if i haven't had any experiences. I feel as though our relationship is only going one way because it is SO serious and i owe myself a chance to live first because i have forever to commit to him but i am afraid of losing him. He truly is one in a million. Now, i met a guy who is the ideal idea of what i would want in a man physically. In terms of his personality i am still getting to know him but as picky as i am he fits. He is polite, courteous, and very straight forward. I haven't been one to let guys get close very easily but things with him just flow so well. I never think of how far things will go or for that matter fantasize about intimacy with someone else, but he has been the cause of it all. He has me all confused about where i want to be. We have been messing around for a month now, but yesterday we had a breaking point where we discussed what we want from this, and he told me he is in no search or need for a relationship right now but he definitely likes me and it seems it could be more than a physical thing. Our hanging out has been consistent, and we have had dates. Now our form of communication is texting, but we see each other practically every other day. We are co workers but the interest was instant. Sexually, he has never pressured me into being with him. Although he did perform oral sex on me. I haven't given him any, nor returned any type of favor, but our kisses and touching are so passionate and intense. He wants me, and lets me know when he looks and me and touches me. i am a traditional girl, and believe intimacy should only be shared with one that you are committed to while in a relationship. The relationship doesnt have to be instant love, but it has to be monogomous. I dont want to share partners. now im torn in between the two. Is this ideal man with me just for the physical and sexual? Am i letting a good thing go just to settle for less? or could this mean im losing focus on my first love>? am i acting reckless because im in lust with another man!? should i stop and work things out with my ex?? HELP ME!
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