Guide to Talking Dirty - Part 1

Talking Dirty can be very arousing for both you and your partner, but most men don’t want to take the chance of feeling embarrassed or even insulting the woman. Here are some simple guidelines to successful dirty talking.

Whether she asks you to talk dirty to her or you want to spice up the session, most women enjoy a little dirty talk. Don’t be afraid to use slang. We are in the 21st century and women are more in tune with their bodies than ever before. So saying pussy or cock will not offend them. Calling her a whore or slut is another story, unless she tells you to call her that.

Practice by yourself first. Since talking dirty can be a little intimidating, practicing alone could mean success in the bedroom. It allows you to find your dirty talk voice and gets you comfortable using some provocative words.

Start off easy. Don’t feel rushed into talking super dirty. Test the waters by describing out loud what is actually happening. Something like “I love the way you touch my…” Or “you taste so good”. One thing to keep in mind is don’t be shy, the whole point of talking dirty is making the sex session hot. If you’re shy or embarrassed, she’ll read you and will most likely be turned off. Plus it’s hard to keep an erection while being intimidated.

When you start getting more comfortable, you can also start telling your partner something you want them to do to you, or what you want to do to them. Make sure you’re confident in what you’re saying; it will make it sexier for her.

Once you notice that your partner enjoys you talking dirty, you can share the experience by asking her to talk dirty too.

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