Helping Women Shop for Adult Toys Without Surfing Porn

Two years ago, when an argument about what side of the porch we should hang the windsock escalated into a 4-hour discussion about ‘it makes me angry when’, my husband and I stumbled onto a much deeper-rooted problem in our marriage. We discovered that neither one of us was satisfied with our sex life.  He was unhappy with the frequency or infrequency rather and I was unhappy with the quality. I didn’t feel connected to him during sex there wasn’t any passion.  We agreed to each make a list of different things we individually felt would improve our sex and made a date to share our lists with one another the next evening.

When it came time to share our lists we sat next to each other on the couch with a glass of wine and one by one read off our improvement strategies. You can imagine my shock and horror when he got to #3 on his list and said, “I’d like to buy some adult toys and use them on you.” My mind said, “What!? You want me to shop for dildos, are you nuts!? “ But my mouth said, “I will do some research and see what I can come up with.” So, the next day I went online, there was no way I was going to go into the local porn shop, slap a vibrator and some lube on the counter, smile and say ‘charge it please.’ I opened my favorite search engine and typed in ‘small, clean, gentle adult toy for a woman’ the first web link on the list read ‘I like my sex dirty and my toys clean.’ That was enough research for that day.

The following day I went at it again, this time I was determined to find an adult toy website that I felt okay shopping at and didn’t blast me with a bunch of pop-ups advertising web cam girls or category lists that included butt products or cock rings and that didn’t have the pictures of their products in my face. This went on for several days I would go online and search the web for adult toys and try not to feel like I was doing something wrong, every time the phone would ring or the mail man came I would immediately minimize my browser window for fear that someone would see what I was looking at and think I was a pervert. Of course if I tried to close the window I would a million other windows popping up advertising one kind of porn or another.

A few weeks went by and I was very close to giving up, one night my husband and I were laying in bed and he asked sheepishly, “How is your adult toy research coming?” Oh I get it – cumming – you’re cute. Then it hit me and I confidently answered hubby’s question with, “Baby, I’m going to open an online adult toy store specifically for women like me, women who want to spice up their sex life and feel sexy and powerful without having to buy products from adult toy website who are quite obviously designed with men in mind.” And that is exactly what I did. At Avalon In Bloom you will find a sexy and romantic design with zero pop-ups and product images with a click to view option. You can have your browser open if the kiddos come into the room without worrying they might see something you don’t want them to and you will never find racy language in the product categories. This website was designed with women, moms, sisters, aunts and nieces in mind. We are powerful and sensual creatures and Avalon In Bloom is our website.